Holy !@#T!!! Shortest Enrollment Ever!

[nannyde]

Well I am already in touch with my worker and licensor so thats that. Goodbye

You DO realize that your "worker" and your "licensor" will have FULL access to the center you just came from? They will have full knowledge of your kids behavior AND... your "billing" issue. Remember that just as THEY are just a phone call away for you... you and your child's behavior history is just a phone call away too.

They will have the whole thing figured out in less than five minutes because they have BTDT.

The sad part for you is that you won't be able to see the on the worker and licensor when they hear about your "amazing" child and her "terrible two" behavior. You won't be able to see their face when they find out how much you are behind at the other place and the TRUTH of why you left there in the first place.

See they do this for a living and you are the ten thousandth parent who has used special words for their special childs special behavior. They have heard every story in the book about your "billing" issues. Not a single word shall pass your lips that they haven't heard in the exact same inflection with the exact same words. You didn't come up with something unique. You are saying the same thing in the same way and retaliating in the same way all those before you have done who have an out of control kid and don't pay their bill.

In the end this will pass for the provider but you will be left with a big fat bill and a kid who goes thru providers like paper towels. You will be in this same spot again and again and again. The provider will make sure she doesn't make the mistake of you again... but you... you will keep making the same mistake because you refuse to see your part.

[Michael]

I've decided to re-open this thread. I've removed the Link to the Craig’s List ad that seemed to bother some members. Everything here is public and open for debate and I think this thread has some great opposing viewpoints that will be helpful now and in the future of "search" topics. If anyone has issue with this you can PM me.

[Zoe]

I'm glad you did. I was very interested to see what others had to say.

[Blackcat31]

I'm glad you did. I was very interested to see what others had to say.

I agree! I think parents and providers need to address this type of situation and know what the right way is to handle it.

I am NOT saying anything towards the parent or provider in this thread but to parents and providers in general.

There are far to many vents on this forum about how to handle out of control children and parents who back up the behavior with excuses for it and do nothing to help change the negative behaviors.

[countrymom]

I agree! I think parents and providers need to address this type of situation and know what the right way is to handle it.

I am NOT saying anything towards the parent or provider in this thread but to parents and providers in general.

There are far to many vents on this forum about how to handle out of control children and parents who back up the behavior with excuses for it and do nothing to help change the negative behaviors.

you hit the nail on the head. There is way too many out of control kids, I see it all the time at the mall, or restaurants (2 weeks ago at subway dh and I, and my kids saw a 9 yr old slap his mother because he didn't get mayo on his sub) and parents are making way too many excuses, instead of just saying, "let me see if we can fix it"

[dave4him]

here is the link if anyone wants to help me flag it.



i really appreciate all your support on here ladies. You guys are the best!

:d :d

[Kaddidle Care]

(2 weeks ago at subway dh and I, and my kids saw a 9 yr old slap his mother because he didn't get mayo on his sub)

And what did she do or say?

[Sugar Magnolia]

Some thoughts on anger....

Wow. After reading this entire thread, the only thing I am left with is this: Anger makes people say and do many things they later regret. I read a quote somewhere that went something like this: "Holding on to anger is like drinking poison and expecting the person you're angry at to die." I think both provider and parent made VERY avoidable mistakes. Neither is "right", neither is "wrong". We all make mistakes. I hope both the OP and the parent can let go of their anger and part ways without further incident and be less concerned with themselves and more concerned with what's best for the child. Its too bad all the anger we vent can't be converted to anger at poverty, hunger and homelessness among children. I know this was off topic, just my small, insignificant way of trying to help both provider and parent heal their hurt and anger. Peace.

[nannyde]

:d :d

:confused:

I deleted the link you posted. This is the second time in this thread you have posted something that doesn't make sense to the thread.

Your other one was: Hmmmm..... smile.... nod..... back away slowly......

:confused:

[HeatherJ]

I just read this thread. HOLY FREAKING MOLEY!!! WOW.
What are the chances that the mother of the child would be contacted about this thread???!
Who would've contacted her about this??? & why?? What good would that do???

[dave4him]

:confused:

I deleted the link you posted. This is the second time in this thread you have posted something that doesn't make sense to the thread.

Your other one was: Hmmmm..... smile.... nod..... back away slowly......

:confused:

I wasnt trying to post the link... as for the other one its called trying to use humor... this thread needed some at the time! Maybe i should leave all together... oh wait no then id be playing right into the theme of where this is all going anyway

[Michael]

I just read this thread. HOLY FREAKING MOLEY!!! WOW.
What are the chances that the mother of the child would be contacted about this thread???!
Who would've contacted her about this??? & why?? What good would that do???

One thing I've learned about the internet, since 1994, is the world is a lot smaller because it. The internet is like the electricity that finally got Frankenstein on it's feet.

[dave4him]

Now i remember... i put the word guys in bold because the line was thanking all the ladies for support!

[nannyde]

I just read this thread. HOLY FREAKING MOLEY!!! WOW.
What are the chances that the mother of the child would be contacted about this thread???!
Who would've contacted her about this??? & why?? What good would that do???

One of the posters here contacted her thru the craigslist ad.

[nannyde]

One thing I've learned about the internet, since 1994, is the world is a lot smaller because it. The internet is like the electricity that finally got Frankenstein on it's feet.

Michael..... speaking of the net

Can you tell me when average people were able to put video up on the internet?