Child Who Hits

[daycare]

is there someone there that he does play well with.

I have some kids who would hit a particular child but not others. I would then separate the kids into safe play groups. Splitting up the two that can't get along.

I would only let them all together when I would be doing circle time or crafting. Basically under my direct supervision..

Like Nan said...You don't want this child to become a harmful asset to your DC. Other good families will leave if you don't do something to stop it...

[mommiesherie]

Yep, give him his own space, and let him come out for short periods of time when you can be right there next to him. Model words for him, showing the proper way to get what he wants vs. hitting.

Three questions:
May I play with you?... if no...
May I watch you?....if no..
Then please let me know when you are finished with that toy...

It's probably a mixture of reasons he does this. He wants attention, his communication skills are still developing, and he's an egotistical four year old.

I would discourage his parents from spanking him for this! If he's already served his time at your house, he should not have to be punished again at home. Besides, hitting a child for hitting is just ridiculous...Hit em for other things!

Hahahhaa bobo the last part was way too funny. I do agree hitting a child for hitting does not make sence. I think they are just trying to help out with the old you are in trouble when you get home mr thing.