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  • hoopinglady
    Daycare.com Member
    • Oct 2011
    • 245

    Our First Walk

    So, I was inspired by some of the folks on here who do daily walks. I thought, what a splendid idea!

    Get out of the house and get a change of scenery
    Use some energy
    Be visible to the neighbors (instead of just yelling from the back yard)
    Teach the toddlers and wild ones how to behave and walk as a group
    Keep the house tidy for a few precious moments.

    So, after breakfast and storytime we set off.

    My son was already in rare form (2). That with the fact that it's Monday should have been a sign, but I was determined.

    My group 3 2's, 1 3, 1 3.5, 1 4.5 and 1 5

    I was worried about the 3.5 dcb because he's the one that has run down the street from his mama at pick up.

    My son and the other (emotional toddler) screeched and whined and had meltdowns the entire time. I had one on each of my hands and the rest of the kiddos did a STELLAR job holding each others' hands.

    I know my neighbors must now hate me (or appreciate the crap out of me)

    I never felt out of control but I was very exhausted and frustrated and sweating profusely by the time we returned.

    My son wanted to be held and was throwing a hissy fit. I wasn't going to give in. The other toddler feeds very strongly on others and gets angry and out of control. It was ugly.

    At one point we all sat on the sidewalk to rest and sings songs hoping that it would bring the energy down.

    I tried getting the babies excited about stuff around us, playing games and singing songs. Each time they would throw themselves on the ground I simply brought them to their feet and said "walk" or "we are walking". This happened about 150 times.

    I feel this is an important lesson for my son to learn. He has been a, for lack of a better word, spoiled beast and he needs to learn to listen.

    An older couple walked by and I explained, "our first walk" she said, "your last too?" I said, "no, we'll get it right" She played with the babies and distracted them for a few blessed moments.

    I really thought I would rock this. My son is very stubborn, but so am I.

    Is it wrong to inflict his screaming (learning) on the neighbors? I feel like I kind of have to go threw that to teach him.
  • AnneCordelia
    Daycare.com Member
    • Jul 2011
    • 816

    #2
    What about a wagon or stroller until he gets his feet about him for walks? We do two walks a day but I have a 'seat' available to each child under 3yo and that helps it go much more smoothly!!

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    • small_steps
      Daycare.com Member
      • Oct 2011
      • 489

      #3
      I think he will come around. Keep doing what you're doing. You're braver than I am though. I want a bye bye buggy or a big wagon or something. I would love to go on daily walks but I have 3 that are 19 months & under and then have 6 more that are 2, 3 & 4. The bigger ones would probably do ok but it's the little ones I couldn't manage alone unless I had a large stroller. They are just too expensive though. Maybe one day

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      • laundrymom
        Advanced Daycare.com Member
        • Nov 2010
        • 4177

        #4
        rinse and repeat,.. ((((())))) sending love.

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        • AnneCordelia
          Daycare.com Member
          • Jul 2011
          • 816

          #5
          Originally posted by laundrymom
          rinse and repeat,.. ((((())))) sending love.
          This too!! ((()))

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          • hoopinglady
            Daycare.com Member
            • Oct 2011
            • 245

            #6
            I'm feelin' the love. Thank you so much.

            I don't have a stroller or wagon at the moment. I have a single stroller but I suspect that would create the same type of issues.

            Plus, I figured a stroller would sort of defeat the purpose.

            People were looking out their doors like "what the heck?" I just smiled and waved.

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            • awestbrook713
              Mommyto3boys
              • Aug 2011
              • 421

              #7
              Kudos to youi for being so strong and patient. You will get it I'm sure. I have thought about walks also I currently have a 8 month old, going to have a 6 week old, 3 3's, 1 4, 3 5's, 1 6, 1 7, and occasionally a 10 yr old. I don't have them all at one time but there are days I have 10 children that including my own 3. Again good for you, and fooey on the neighbors its a free country and you did something good for the kiddies.

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              • Zoe
                Advanced Daycare.com Member
                • Dec 2010
                • 1445

                #8
                Remember too that your walks are during the day. Most people are at work and those at home can deal with a minute or two of a screaming child as you walk past. I tried this too the other day. I had the double stroller with me and had the 16 month old in it with an empty seat for those who needed a rest. She SCREAMED the whole time! SO embarrassing but I kept on. You keep it up! It will come to you!

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                • nannyde
                  All powerful, all knowing daycare whisperer
                  • Mar 2010
                  • 7320

                  #9
                  I couldn't manage seven without a triple stroller and tot a longs.

                  I would have six attached to the stroller and one riding and then rotate the two year olds into the riding spot.

                  It takes a LOT to train the kids to do it. We start them when they are new walkers.

                  If you look thru this album you can see how we attach the kids to the tot a longs and the tot a longs to the stroller.

                  http://www.amazon.com/Daycare-Whispe...=doing+daycare

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                  • mismatchedsocks
                    Advanced Daycare.com Member
                    • May 2010
                    • 677

                    #10

                    I have this and even with the younger 2's and 3's it takes a while for them to catch on, but without a stroller this is the only way I can do it. I worry alot of them running away.

                    Good for you though! Hope they "get it" soon!

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                    • JenNJ
                      Advanced Daycare.com Member
                      • Jun 2010
                      • 1212

                      #11
                      have you tried a walking rope?


                      I made one for my group and it works wonders. I wear the baby in the backpack and everyone else holds the rope. I make each child responsible for their buddy, too. Kids like to boss one another.

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                      • Nellie
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Sep 2011
                        • 259

                        #12
                        (((((BIG))))))

                        Last night we went to my grandmothers. It was suppose to be a quick stop to pick up something, but we don't see her to often and she wanted us to stay for dinner. We had been at DH BB tournament all day and the boys were tired. My just turned 3 year old knows that I am a softy when it comes to not being at home or when company is over at our house. I hate making a seen and don't want others to see his fits. But after last night I decided that he had to have the same discipline, the same rules as when we are at home. I feel your pain. Stick with it and don't give up. I will too.
                        I don't know how long your walk was, but maybe start out with something short and add length. I think it is GREAT that you are trying to go for daily walks. I live out in the country and we have trails through the woods. It is nice because I can let them just run for the most part, but would really like to teach them the rules of walking for when we are on sidewalks and in public. Stick with it and you are doing great.

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                        • momofsix
                          Advanced Daycare.com Member
                          • Oct 2009
                          • 1846

                          #13
                          Originally posted by nannyde
                          I couldn't manage seven without a triple stroller and tot a longs.

                          I would have six attached to the stroller and one riding and then rotate the two year olds into the riding spot.

                          It takes a LOT to train the kids to do it. We start them when they are new walkers.

                          If you look thru this album you can see how we attach the kids to the tot a longs and the tot a longs to the stroller.

                          http://www.nanshouse.com/apps/photos...lbumid=7213977
                          I got my tot a longs after the "lost kid" thread and LOVE them! The kids actually think it's a treat to wear them and we walk almost every day without any problems!

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                          • nannyde
                            All powerful, all knowing daycare whisperer
                            • Mar 2010
                            • 7320

                            #14
                            Originally posted by momofsix
                            I got my tot a longs after the "lost kid" thread and LOVE them! The kids actually think it's a treat to wear them and we walk almost every day without any problems!
                            Simple solutions
                            http://www.amazon.com/Daycare-Whispe...=doing+daycare

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                            • lil angels
                              Advanced Daycare.com Member
                              • Jan 2011
                              • 643

                              #15
                              Nope you did exactly what most of us have to do. I have a group about the same as yours and I will normally put the smallest two in a stroller and make everyone else walk it is good for them. Keep at it, it will get alot better you will see.

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