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i watch siblings, one is 3 and one is 6. they like to fight and hit either each other or the 3 yr old likes to hit other kids. The jump on each other too. i don't allow this, but when I tell mom I get, "well they are boys"
so mom has been getting phone calls from school because her child is hitting the kids at recesses. So again she gets a phone call and told the prin. that don't call her anymore unless its an emergency. She keeps saying that the boys just want to play fight because they have nothing else to do. So now she said that she is going to reward her child for being good at school.
I should add, that she buys crap for the kids all the time, but keeps saying that boys will be boys.
What does she want me to say, sorry, what I want to say is, that it is poor parenting and she needs to quit blaming everyone and look at her parenting skills. They let the kids fight with each other, they watch kick boxing shows, her discipline to the kids is a joke, oh, this child is in grade 1, but it started last year. I have children of my own and they don't behave like this, they are afraid of me and the consequences. I told her that rewarding the kids is not going to work, she needs to really start punishing them for this behavior and not condone it, she babies them too.
i watch siblings, one is 3 and one is 6. they like to fight and hit either each other or the 3 yr old likes to hit other kids. The jump on each other too. i don't allow this, but when I tell mom I get, "well they are boys"
so mom has been getting phone calls from school because her child is hitting the kids at recesses. So again she gets a phone call and told the prin. that don't call her anymore unless its an emergency. She keeps saying that the boys just want to play fight because they have nothing else to do. So now she said that she is going to reward her child for being good at school.
I should add, that she buys crap for the kids all the time, but keeps saying that boys will be boys.
What does she want me to say, sorry, what I want to say is, that it is poor parenting and she needs to quit blaming everyone and look at her parenting skills. They let the kids fight with each other, they watch kick boxing shows, her discipline to the kids is a joke, oh, this child is in grade 1, but it started last year. I have children of my own and they don't behave like this, they are afraid of me and the consequences. I told her that rewarding the kids is not going to work, she needs to really start punishing them for this behavior and not condone it, she babies them too.
Ive trained her to know how to defend herself.... but still working on the self control part
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