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  • safechner
    Daycare.com Member
    • Jan 2010
    • 753

    #16
    Originally posted by Sugar Magnolia
    Greetings Safechner! The two of us can be the deaf/hard of hearing support group!
    Awesome! I didn't know you are deaf or hoh but I am glad I am not only one.

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    • Sugar Magnolia
      Blossoms Blooming
      • Apr 2011
      • 2647

      #17
      Originally posted by safechner
      Awesome! I didn't know you are deaf or hoh but I am glad I am not only one.
      HOH. As an adult. Glad to know I'm not the only one too

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      • 2ndFamilyDC
        Daycare.com Member
        • Aug 2011
        • 211

        #18
        Always nice to know there are other providers in the same boat. Working with kids that we may think have some reason to be concerned with their development and then trying to get the parents to listen to us and do something about it. To often they don't want to hear abou it.

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        • caligirl
          Daycare.com Member
          • Aug 2011
          • 210

          #19
          Originally posted by Sugar Magnolia
          I thought about this a lot over night. You have 26 years experience so you definitely know it is clearly a developmental delay. But I am really concerned its hearing related. Try saying his name in a quiet voice from behind him and see if he turns around..
          I'm going to try this! I'll have to wait until it's quieter around here, usually first thing in the morning.

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          • caligirl
            Daycare.com Member
            • Aug 2011
            • 210

            #20
            To continue my story...................

            The mom has asked me several times how much he sleeps during the day. She would like me to give him 2 naps a day as she does at home on the weekends. He is almost 20 mo. I told her that he is not tired in the morning. There is no way I could get him to nap in the morning. I asked her why, she told me because he is a mess at night. He's crabby, screaming, controllable until they put him to bed (at 6:30).he is picked up at 5:00...... she joked that maybe he is just bored at home....Could be. He is very busy here during the day.
            He is in bed by 6:30 pm and up at 6am....my house at 7am until 5pm...mornings are rush, rush with the mom getting herself ready and her 4 yr old and the little one.....no quality time in the morning...from 5-6:30 it's hurry hurry getting dinner...4 yr old demanding attention...the boy doesn't get much I am guessing... His weekend schedule is almost the same.12 hours of sleep at night with 2 long naps (9:00 - 11:00am and again 2:00-4:00)...so, this 20 month old boy is sleeping 16 hours out of a 24 hour day......he is awake approx. 18 hours in a weekend..........she feels that he has his 'meltdowns' because he needs more sleep.........

            Ok....... I have to bite my tongue when she says that to me.........

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            • caligirl
              Daycare.com Member
              • Aug 2011
              • 210

              #21
              The sister also has learning disabilities that the mom has ignored......

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