Hello all, I am new here. Short intro. I am a FCC provider through the Air Force. My husband and I are stationed overseas, and we have no children. This is my 3rd year as a home daycare provider.
I thought I would find a forum with some "seasoned" providers who could help me out. I have a 3 year old dkb who drives me up the wall with his indecisiveness. I have had him 7 months now, and its not getting any better. And its about EVERYTHING! From leaving the playground, to blowing his nose and his food.
DKB "Can I blow my nose?"
Me "Yes, you can blow your nose, you don't have to ask."
DKB "I don't want to blow my nose."
Me "Ok, then you don't have to."
DKB "I WANNA BLOW MY NOSE!!!" (screaming and running away)
Me "Its time to draw a picture, do you want to come?"
DKB "No, I don't want to color."
Me "Ok then."
DKB "I WANT TO COLOR!!!"
I've researched it and some say that its him not used to being able to make choices for himself, and he just has to learn to make a decision. Others say its him trying to be in control. So, I've spoke to mom about it and we've both agreed to try making him stick to his first decision. But we are not progressing. This happens several times a day over multiple things. That "nose blowing" conversation happens every other day. The same conversation.
I've never had a child like this, can anyone offer any advice?
I thought I would find a forum with some "seasoned" providers who could help me out. I have a 3 year old dkb who drives me up the wall with his indecisiveness. I have had him 7 months now, and its not getting any better. And its about EVERYTHING! From leaving the playground, to blowing his nose and his food.
DKB "Can I blow my nose?"
Me "Yes, you can blow your nose, you don't have to ask."
DKB "I don't want to blow my nose."
Me "Ok, then you don't have to."
DKB "I WANNA BLOW MY NOSE!!!" (screaming and running away)
Me "Its time to draw a picture, do you want to come?"
DKB "No, I don't want to color."
Me "Ok then."
DKB "I WANT TO COLOR!!!"
I've researched it and some say that its him not used to being able to make choices for himself, and he just has to learn to make a decision. Others say its him trying to be in control. So, I've spoke to mom about it and we've both agreed to try making him stick to his first decision. But we are not progressing. This happens several times a day over multiple things. That "nose blowing" conversation happens every other day. The same conversation.
I've never had a child like this, can anyone offer any advice?
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