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I have a daycare full of GIRLS, yes I said Girls! If one isn't getting hurt feelings, the other one is and it seems like we have days that they are constantly bickering. I do have to say that my own dcg is the worse usually of all of them. I feel like I am constantly reminding her to use nice words, be nice to her friends and it's just non stop. Today is one of those days that I feel like I am constantly on one of them at all times. What do you do when your dck's are hurtful to each other? What do you do when your own child is mean to the other dck's? I need some help!
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First let me say, no fun all girls.
I once sub in a third grade class of all girls for three weeks. NO FUN!
Would much rather have all boys.
Any way how old are the girls?
Are they old enough to say that if you girls do not start at least pretending to be civil to each other then we will have to do nothing but sit in separate locations and stare at the walls. Or maybe even old enough to pretend to not hear them. A director/principal once told me that sometimes a teacher need to not hear everything.
Girls are verbally mean and hold a grudges for a long time (or at least longer than a boy would). Yes, this is a stereo type and is not true all the time just most of the time. -
Girls hurt with words, boys hurt with hands.
Your daughter is probably upset at having to share "her" mommy, "her" home, "her" toys, "her" space. Is it possible to give her a couple of extra minutes of "one on one" a couple of times a day? Maybe an extra hug here and there? When you see her playing nice, give her an extra smile or thumbs up,a subtle something just for her.Comment
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