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  • laundrymom
    Advanced Daycare.com Member
    • Nov 2010
    • 4177

    Non Contracted Dad Wants EIN

    I've been gone for quite some time but I promise, I was an active member. Not a troll.
    I have a family that I termed on bad terms in december. They wanted me to go against state policy and I refused.
    I gave mom ein last month Anyway,got a text from dad today, non contracted dad who has no receipts in his name, mind you. All receipts were written to mom.
    He wants my tax info for his taxes.
    What should I do?
    I already gave info to Mom and he is only listed on the forms I have as father, not any receipts. He did not sign the contract.
  • Cat Herder
    Advanced Daycare.com Member
    • Dec 2010
    • 13744

    #2
    Welcome back

    I'd tell him to get it from Mom.

    They picked each other.
    - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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    • laundrymom
      Advanced Daycare.com Member
      • Nov 2010
      • 4177

      #3
      Oh Cat! I've missed you!

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      • Cat Herder
        Advanced Daycare.com Member
        • Dec 2010
        • 13744

        #4
        Originally posted by laundrymom
        Oh Cat! I've missed you!
        You should stick around. You have been very missed as well. :hug:
        - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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        • Blackcat31
          • Oct 2010
          • 36124

          #5
          Originally posted by laundrymom
          I've been gone for quite some time but I promise, I was an active member. Not a troll.
          I have a family that I termed on bad terms in december. They wanted me to go against state policy and I refused.
          I gave mom ein last month Anyway,got a text from dad today, non contracted dad who has no receipts in his name, mind you. All receipts were written to mom.
          He wants my tax info for his taxes.
          What should I do?
          I already gave info to Mom and he is only listed on the forms I have as father, not any receipts. He did not sign the contract.
          Hi!! Waving excitedly!!!! happyface happyface


          I would reply:

          "All required tax info has already been provided to payor. Please contact them. Thank you!"

          Then don't reply or explain further. Just leave it.

          I don't know their situation or their agreement for who claims what/who and frankly it's not necessary.

          You provided the info to the person who paid the account.
          The rest is between them.

          NICE TO SEE YOU!!!!

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          • laundrymom
            Advanced Daycare.com Member
            • Nov 2010
            • 4177

            #6
            Originally posted by Cat Herder
            You should stick around. You have been very missed as well. :hug:
            I've been limiting my social media time to spend with my sweet grandson! I swear, this is so much better than raising kids! Haha. I never knew I could love someone as much as I do him.
            And he lives literally, across a field from me.

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            • TomCopeland
              Business Author/Trainer
              • Jun 2010
              • 3062

              #7
              parent receipt

              Originally posted by Blackcat31
              Hi!! Waving excitedly!!!! happyface happyface


              I would reply:

              "All required tax info has already been provided to payor. Please contact them. Thank you!"

              Then don't reply or explain further. Just leave it.

              I don't know their situation or their agreement for who claims what/who and frankly it's not necessary.

              You provided the info to the person who paid the account.
              The rest is between them.

              NICE TO SEE YOU!!!!
              I agree with this response!
              http://www.tomcopelandblog.com

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              • laundrymom
                Advanced Daycare.com Member
                • Nov 2010
                • 4177

                #8
                Originally posted by TomCopeland
                I agree with this response!
                Bowing to the great and mighty Mr. Copeland. (Who we all should get together and send away for a vacation cruise after tax season each year, just sayin)
                I will respond this way. Thank you.

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                • laundrymom
                  Advanced Daycare.com Member
                  • Nov 2010
                  • 4177

                  #9
                  Nice to see you, as well. I hoped you'd still be here. I'm thinking of
                  "I provided mom with EIN as she was parent who contracted care."
                  Which was a nightmare as she texted me on a friday morning when I wasnt working on my birthday weekend,I didnt respond because, well.... Birthday weekend. wink wink.
                  then again early on saturday morning threatening to call the state and report me for ignoring her. I did send the info but she texted again 7 times over the weekend, stating monday morning she would be on the phone making a formal complaint against me for discrimination, unprofessional behavior, and failure to respond in a timely manner.
                  Anyway, I'll go with the response above.


                  Originally posted by Blackcat31
                  Hi!! Waving excitedly!!!! happyface happyface


                  I would reply:

                  "All required tax info has already been provided to payor. Please contact them. Thank you!"

                  Then don't reply or explain further. Just leave it.

                  I don't know their situation or their agreement for who claims what/who and frankly it's not necessary.

                  You provided the info to the person who paid the account.
                  The rest is between them.

                  NICE TO SEE YOU!!!!

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                  • Cat Herder
                    Advanced Daycare.com Member
                    • Dec 2010
                    • 13744

                    #10
                    Oh, wow. She sounds like a peach. :hug:

                    Enjoy your grandson!! lovethis I hope to have a few years yet. Mine just recently flew the coop.
                    - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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                    • laundrymom
                      Advanced Daycare.com Member
                      • Nov 2010
                      • 4177

                      #11
                      A peach, yeah. We'll go w that. A peach.

                      I only have one left at home who grads this spring. The three oldest have gotten their own sinks to keep clean and fridges to fill.


                      Originally posted by Cat Herder
                      Oh, wow. She sounds like a peach. :hug:

                      Enjoy your grandson!! lovethis I hope to have a few years yet. Mine just recently flew the coop.

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                      • laundrymom
                        Advanced Daycare.com Member
                        • Nov 2010
                        • 4177

                        #12
                        and now... I'll take a quick look at the forum.....
                        (I know Ill emerge three hours later. )

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                        • laundrymom
                          Advanced Daycare.com Member
                          • Nov 2010
                          • 4177

                          #13
                          And now hes saying I gave them an EIN not a FID

                          Yes, I texted a pic of the google answer to Whats a FID number
                          Shocker, an EIN number.
                          deep breaths. deep breaths. You dont have to deal w them anymore after this. deep breath...

                          Originally posted by Cat Herder
                          Welcome back

                          I'd tell him to get it from Mom.

                          They picked each other.

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                          • Cat Herder
                            Advanced Daycare.com Member
                            • Dec 2010
                            • 13744

                            #14
                            Originally posted by laundrymom
                            And now hes saying I gave them an EIN not a FID

                            Yes, I texted a pic of the google answer to Whats a FID number
                            Shocker, an EIN number.
                            deep breaths. deep breaths. You dont have to deal w them anymore after this. deep breath...
                            Wow. They were clearly made for one another.

                            Hang in there. :hug:
                            - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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                            • Leigh
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • Apr 2013
                              • 3814

                              #15
                              Originally posted by laundrymom
                              And now hes saying I gave them an EIN not a FID

                              Yes, I texted a pic of the google answer to Whats a FID number
                              Shocker, an EIN number.
                              deep breaths. deep breaths. You dont have to deal w them anymore after this. deep breath...
                              At this point, I would just block both of their numbers and enjoy your life in peace.

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