Have you ever worked for a family of another culture? I started working for a Vietnamese family a few months ago. The way they raise their children is by far different than what I am accustomed to and asking them to follow ordinary rules I have set in my home has become a chore.
DCB is 19 months. He has a horrible gag reflex or something because this kid pukes on command. He won't eat "American" food. The parents bring in blended up Vietnamese cuisines for him that I have to spoon feed. But he will eat crackers, cheerios, animal crackers, goldfish, etc.
Last Friday I fed him his lunch last...at 12pm and laid him down for a nap around 1245pm. DCB vomited all over his pack and play. It took me 6 hours to clean, sanitize, disinfect and get that horrible stench out of the room!!!! I explained to DCD that I can't continue to care for him unless he is checked out by a doctor or a dietician to determine if there is anything wrong. I went on to explain to DCD that I just sunk over $10,000 into my house and I can't afford to have his son go walking around and barfing on command. DCD apologized profusely and said he would take him to the doctor.
Monday morning rolls around and in comes DCD with a gift for me for Mother's Day. Very nice gesture, but no mention of DCB going to the doctor, no scheduled appointment, nothing. Just a blended up bowl of God-knows-what and a "See you at 5pm."
It's about to the point I raise the rate and save the extra money in the event I need to hire a carpet cleaning company. I'm really at a loss on what to do. I also am in the process of registering and getting on the food program and I have it in my policy that no food can be brought in unless the child is on a special diet. DCD says this is a special diet because his son wont eat anything else.
How do I tell DCD that I am not spoon feeding his child this muck daily and that if I have to, the rate is going up...significantly???
DCB is 19 months. He has a horrible gag reflex or something because this kid pukes on command. He won't eat "American" food. The parents bring in blended up Vietnamese cuisines for him that I have to spoon feed. But he will eat crackers, cheerios, animal crackers, goldfish, etc.
Last Friday I fed him his lunch last...at 12pm and laid him down for a nap around 1245pm. DCB vomited all over his pack and play. It took me 6 hours to clean, sanitize, disinfect and get that horrible stench out of the room!!!! I explained to DCD that I can't continue to care for him unless he is checked out by a doctor or a dietician to determine if there is anything wrong. I went on to explain to DCD that I just sunk over $10,000 into my house and I can't afford to have his son go walking around and barfing on command. DCD apologized profusely and said he would take him to the doctor.
Monday morning rolls around and in comes DCD with a gift for me for Mother's Day. Very nice gesture, but no mention of DCB going to the doctor, no scheduled appointment, nothing. Just a blended up bowl of God-knows-what and a "See you at 5pm."
It's about to the point I raise the rate and save the extra money in the event I need to hire a carpet cleaning company. I'm really at a loss on what to do. I also am in the process of registering and getting on the food program and I have it in my policy that no food can be brought in unless the child is on a special diet. DCD says this is a special diet because his son wont eat anything else.
How do I tell DCD that I am not spoon feeding his child this muck daily and that if I have to, the rate is going up...significantly???
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