Michael You Need To Do Something Now!!

[countrymom]

there is a unregistered user in the thread "watch what you post here" its post #40, you need to remove it. Someone is out to get a member on here, read the threads that she has highlighted.
I think we also should know who is spying on us.

[jen]

I just went and looked and Yes, that should be deleted immediately.

Mods, can you do something until Michael is back "in the building."

To whomever our unregistered friend is...If you are so strong in your opinions, I must ask...why are you remaining anonymous? If your belief was strong enough to track a provider down and then report her, not to mention your post calling her out, don't you think the very least you could do is refrain from hiding behind unregistered?

Especially in the event that you are a regular user, the provider in question (as well as the rest of us) should certainly have the right to know "who" you are!

[countrymom]

thats what I want to know. and guess what, michael can find out who it is. I think he needs to delete this person.

[E Daycare]

Geeze this is just insane! Good thing is Im sure he can see that the IP for the unregistered user will be the same as the IP to someone unregistered even if posted from a separate computer and take action (or leave it and consider it as us learning the hard way). Either way, I say that if someone has a real beef with someone else to take it to PM. Yes everyone has their opinions on crap but this is crazy to me. Id much rather go back to being a lurker then worry my free speech will bite me in the @ss.

[AnythingsPossible]

I am curious as to why you all feel it should be deleted? The links were items that had been posted. The original poster obviously didn't feel that she was in error in posting the stuff. I figure if you are willing to post stuff on here, you have to be willing to stand behind it and defend it if need be. If you don't feel you can, you shouldn't post it.

While I think this situation is completly crazy, unfortunately, if we are going to put stuff on here, we have to realize that ANYBODY can see it and do what they want with the information. Somebody definately has to much time on their hands though!

[E Daycare]

I am curious as to why you all feel it should be deleted? The links were items that had been posted. The original poster obviously didn't feel that she was in error in posting the stuff. I figure if you are willing to post stuff on here, you have to be willing to stand behind it and defend it if need be. If you don't feel you can, you shouldn't post it.

While I think this situation is completly crazy, unfortunately, if we are going to put stuff on here, we have to realize that ANYBODY can see it and do what they want with the information. Somebody definately has to much time on their hands though!

I see your point and agree! As much as its ****y I chalk it up to lesson learned.

[jen]

My personal opinion is this...whoever posted all of those links doesn't appear to have posted anything in the original threads...at least there hadn't been any negative responses in the threads that I saw. They were clearly sitting back, taking notes and keeping quiet. NOW suddenly they have ALOT to say and are only willing to do it anonymously.

What they are doing now, in my opinion, by collecting all of those links is paramount to bullying.

By all means disagree, God knows I do it all the time :: but if you're going to do it, stand up and do it without hiding and do it at the time of the post! Don't just keep notes until you have enough ammunition to really make a splash! Especially if your concern is for the child, not the attention.

[countrymom]

ya, I see your point, BUT, these are older posts so someone is keeping track of posts, like preying on people. I find it creepy.

[cillybean83]

hmmmm....interesting

The point is that the unregistered person is an @sshole...sorry to put it out there like that but it is what it is. The OP made it clear they wanted to stay Anon. and the unregistered went out of their way to "out" the OP.

If the person who filed a complaint and who is wasting time perpetuating the issue on here has so much beef, call up the provider and talk it out, don't make HER business YOUR business...and then don't go linking all sorts of past crap to a thread doing everything in your power to make the person look bad, everyone vents, and when you're typing you could be blowing things out of proportion out of anger, or maybe the way SHE does things isn't how YOU would do things, again...it's none of your GD business

And if Mrs. unregistered would like to have a problem with me now that I called you what you are...a pathetic loser who needs to get a life and stop meddling in the lives of others, you're welcome come after me too if you would like, want my address? Might make your job a bit easier...since it's very easy to find out who YOU are (ever hear of an IP address?)

Hey, my kid put his hand in the toilet yesterday, better call 911 quick!

Stupid, stupid, stupid.

[jen]

hmmmm....interesting

the point is that the unregistered person is an @sshole...sorry to put it out there like that but it is what it is. The op made it clear they wanted to stay anon. And the unregistered went out of their way to "out" the op.

If the person who filed a complaint and who is wasting time perpetuating the issue on here has so much beef, call up the provider and talk it out, don't make her business your business...and then don't go linking all sorts of past crap to a thread doing everything in your power to make the person look bad, everyone vents, and when you're typing you could be blowing things out of proportion out of anger, or maybe the way she does things isn't how you would do things, again...it's none of your gd business

and if mrs. Unregistered would like to have a problem with me now that i called you what you are...a pathetic loser who needs to get a life and stop meddling in the lives of others, you're welcome come after me too if you would like, want my address? Might make your job a bit easier...since it's very easy to find out who you are (ever hear of an ip address?)

hey, my kid put his hand in the toilet yesterday, better call 911 quick!

Stupid, stupid, stupid.

clap * clap * clap*

[marniewon]

hmmmm....interesting

The point is that the unregistered person is an @sshole...sorry to put it out there like that but it is what it is. The OP made it clear they wanted to stay Anon. and the unregistered went out of their way to "out" the OP.

If the person who filed a complaint and who is wasting time perpetuating the issue on here has so much beef, call up the provider and talk it out, don't make HER business YOUR business...and then don't go linking all sorts of past crap to a thread doing everything in your power to make the person look bad, everyone vents, and when you're typing you could be blowing things out of proportion out of anger, or maybe the way SHE does things isn't how YOU would do things, again...it's none of your GD business

And if Mrs. unregistered would like to have a problem with me now that I called you what you are...a pathetic loser who needs to get a life and stop meddling in the lives of others, you're welcome come after me too if you would like, want my address? Might make your job a bit easier...since it's very easy to find out who YOU are (ever hear of an IP address?)

Hey, my kid put his hand in the toilet yesterday, better call 911 quick!

Stupid, stupid, stupid.

Amen!! And if anyone reads the posts linked (and the editorial to go along with them) there are only one or two that would make me even say "hmmm....I'm not sure I'd do it that way". I'm guessing that "unregistered" is not even a dc provider! If he/she were, they would know that much of what OP posted/vented/asked advice for goes on all the time. And, for the most part, OP was asking for advice! At least she was trying to do the right thing.

[dEHmom]

Hallelujah!

[Abigail]

I normally avoid "drama" and am well aware of the issue at hand. I agree with Jen's post and I'm glad it was deleted. IMO....LOL ::