Baby Doesn't Take Naps, Possible ADHD

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    #31
    Can mom provide u a crib tent she might since she dosent wanna leave u

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    • permanentvacation
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      • Jun 2011
      • 2461

      #32
      I think I'm just done with him. I told his mother tonight to look for other daycare. I'm just going to leave it at that.

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      • daycare
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        • Feb 2011
        • 16259

        #33
        Originally posted by permanentvacation
        I think I'm just done with him. I told his mother tonight to look for other daycare. I'm just going to leave it at that.
        hugs to you......

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        • permanentvacation
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          • Jun 2011
          • 2461

          #34
          Daycare,

          Thank you!

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          • daycare
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            • Feb 2011
            • 16259

            #35
            you're welcome. I know how hard that must have been. especially after you tried so hard.

            Chin up. good things are coming your way. You are going to find a perfect fit for that spot, I know it because you deserve it. :hug::hug:

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            • permanentvacation
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              • Jun 2011
              • 2461

              #36
              Thank you! I just really hope I get more kids soon! Financially, I just really hurt myself by terminating the baby. But I know that overall for the health and sanity of everyone in my daycare and my household, it was the right decision. But, financially, I just shot myself in my foot! I just really hope I get more kids!

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              • Josiegirl
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                • Jun 2013
                • 10834

                #37
                Originally posted by permanentvacation
                Thank you! I just really hope I get more kids soon! Financially, I just really hurt myself by terminating the baby. But I know that overall for the health and sanity of everyone in my daycare and my household, it was the right decision. But, financially, I just shot myself in my foot! I just really hope I get more kids!
                Maybe temporarily you did but I feel in the long run you did yourself, the other kids and families a huge favor! You admitted the chaos in your dc may have made your potential assistant take off for the hills, so maybe this is the step you needed to take to turn that all around? Find some different and unique ways to advertise and get the word out!!! Can your current dcfs help with spreading the word? You lasted way longer than I could have. In fact, I took a 12 month old awhile back and never lasted the trial period with her. She'd wrap her arms around my legs all day, begging, screaming to be picked up. She slept 45 minutes the first day and that was it. No naps again the whole time. She was just miserable here. I had her sibling and was so afraid I would lose her too. As it turned out, they put the youngest into a center and a few months later they asked me if I'd be willing to give it another try. I did and it's worked out unbelievably well.
                Anyways, stay hopeful!! The amount of stress this one child was causing you may be a huge turning point so think positive! Good things will come!!

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                • permanentvacation
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                  • Jun 2011
                  • 2461

                  #38
                  Josiegirl,

                  I don't like having to have children flip-flop through daycares. It's not good for them. So I do my best to work with the child and families to make it work. Therefore, I hold out for as long as I can before I terminate someone. But after 3 months with this baby, I still have not made any progress! When my other parents started inquiring about their children taking nap because they were basically a holy terror at home from being so tired, I realized that the baby would have to either take nap or stop coming very soon. Then other people on the forum made comments about how broke would I be if I lost all of the other kids because of this one kid and wound up with only this one kid I decided that he simply has to stop coming here. I talked with my nephew about it (he's only 4 years younger than I am) and he agreed that sometimes you have to sacrifice one and lose the income from one for the benefit of the whole group.

                  I spoke with someone this morning about child care. She said she will call me after she gets off work today. Hopefully she'll call and hire me!

                  I'm just really nervous because I'm on a time limit to increase my income and get something permanently working! Technically, January might be the last month's rent that my ex pays for me! That's only 3 more months now! And here I went and kicked a kid out! I just REALLY hope I get more kids very soon!

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                  • Melissa67
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                    • Sep 2014
                    • 23

                    #39
                    what age can a child start adhd med

                    I'll try to make this short,have child 3ys old,started in nov,I always thought he was just bad,then I thought something is not right with him,my daughter said adhd (teacher),I brought it up to the dad today,he said he was diagnose,but was too young for med. WHY IN HELL YOU DIDN'T TELL ME THAT WHEN HE STARTED, think he was ashamed, idk

                    to think of how many times I punished him,yelled at him,ect
                    back to my question how young can a child get med, do they have to wait till they get to school. thanks for the responses

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                    • Ariana
                      Advanced Daycare.com Member
                      • Jun 2011
                      • 8969

                      #40
                      Originally posted by Melissa67
                      I'll try to make this short,have child 3ys old,started in nov,I always thought he was just bad,then I thought something is not right with him,my daughter said adhd (teacher),I brought it up to the dad today,he said he was diagnose,but was too young for med. WHY IN HELL YOU DIDN'T TELL ME THAT WHEN HE STARTED, think he was ashamed, idk

                      to think of how many times I punished him,yelled at him,ect
                      back to my question how young can a child get med, do they have to wait till they get to school. thanks for the responses
                      I don't know but I recently read an article that the majority of kids being diagnosed as ADHD are actually chronically sleep deprived. I have seen it in my own daycare the actions of chronically sleep deprived kids and how much their behavior changes once they get the sleep they need.

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