Change in Policy Due to Frequent Call Offs

[irishrose]

Hi All!

Now that summer is here, we have many families wanting to take vacations. We wouldn't have a problem with that... however, they let us know a day or two before. Here's the situation. We are a Type A in-home daycare so we can care for 12 kids at a time. We have two staff working while our ratio is above 6 and overall we have 4 people employed. So, when I do the schedule the week before, I have it all worked out for staff and children schedules. (And juggling 4 staff and 18 children's schedules is not easy!!) Then, for example, this morning, we had a parent come in and tell us that her two boys wouldn't be here Thursday and Friday. That is a one day notice. When we had heard about the parent taking vacation days (mind you - we heard through the children - she had yet to tell us) we decided to make some changes to our contract and send them home. In short, the changes said that we need at least a one-week notice of vacation days so that we can fill the spot, temproarlily with part time children. If we do not receive at least a one week notice, we will charge you for the hours that you were scheduled to be here. The next morning, after parents had a chance to read our contract changes, we had one mom threaten to pull her children out and she would not agree with the changes. Another one simply said, well I though I could use my 10 vacation days that Im given every six month - Well.. yes, she technically can- but we need one week notice......

Sooo frustrating!!!
We - the staff - get OUR hours cut and we LOSE money - money that we need to pay our bills!!

So my question here is, how do I handle these parent's angry complaints about the change when it is time for them to pick up tonight. I did not open this morning so I did not have the opportunity to talk with them this morning. Fortunately one of the staff gave me a heads up and I've been wracking my brain all day. All of you here are wonderful with words and I appreciate all of the advice! Thanks

[Thriftylady]

Well I am a class B home, and I have no staff, but it is in my contract that weekly tuition is due regardless of attendance. In the case of vacation, I only charge half tuition as a spot holder, but they have to give me notice. I say if someone leaves over it, let them and when you replace enforce the new policy.

[KayB]

Can you not charge a flat weekly rate. No matter if in attendance or not?

[irishrose]

I say if someone leaves over it, let them and when you replace enforce the new policy.

That was my thought too. We love the kids and hate to see them go if it comes down to that - but if the parent doesn't agree to our terms, we can always find another family to replace them.

Thanks for the advice!

[irishrose]

Our rate is $3.25/hour/kid. I have encouraged the administrator to consider charging weekly fees but is unsure of how to go about this. She has been doing hourly rate charges for nearly 30 years. Personally I feel that a weekly rate, whether absent or present is the way to go.

A lot of the parents in the area prefer the hourly rate - that way they only pay for the times they use. Maybe this is a point I could bring up to the DCM that is angry with us when she picks up her kids tonight!

Thanks for letting me think out loud

[bklsmum]

I would just tell them that this is the policy and that is how it is. It is rude and inconsiderate of them to expect you to just be sitting there ready for them with no pay if they decide to take off on vacation. If anyone complains ask them if they would like you to stop giving notice of your vacations and days off.

[Thriftylady]

Well if it isn't YOUR daycare, you can't really make the rules. Of course though parents are not going to want to go to a different system that costs them more. But if the daycare looses employees and or money over it, then they will have to find new care. If I had a job where I got sent home because I wasn't needed, and then couldn't pay my bills, I would be finding a new job.

[e.j.]

Personally, I'd explain the reason behind the change and hope they understand why the change has to happen. If the change still isn't acceptable to them, though, I'd tell the parents that while I'm sad to lose them as clients, I understand and wish them luck in their search for a new provider/day care.

[Blackcat31]

Personally, I'd explain the reason behind the change and hope they understand why the change has to happen. If the change still isn't acceptable to them, though, I'd tell the parents that while I'm sad to lose them as clients, I understand and wish them luck in their search for a new provider/day care.

It sounds like a few people need an explanation of "group care" and what it means to be part of a group.

Individual needs aside, being a part of a large group requires a bit of consideration in regards to ratio's and safety.

IMHO, most places require a certain amount of advance notice before taking time off so I fail to see why it would be such a big deal for parents to give a week's notice about vacation time... are they all seriously deciding the night before to take a week off?

If so, where do they work that they can simply decide that kind of thing on a moments notice?

The way I see it, there are two choices.... either give advance notice and NOT pay or give notice the night before but still PAY. Not a hard decision.

[Unregistered]

I give parents 7 days vacation per year. I require 2 weeks notice. I've never had anyone say anything.

[Unregistered]

I charge a weekly rate and they have to pay it whether their child is here or not. They are paying to hold their child's spot. I get paid vacation too. That is standard in home daycares where I live. You should change your contract to, you pay the weekly rate whether the child is here or not It reduces my stress level big time.

[TXhomedaycare]

Well I am a class B home, and I have no staff, but it is in my contract that weekly tuition is due regardless of attendance. In the case of vacation, I only charge half tuition as a spot holder, but they have to give me notice. I say if someone leaves over it, let them and when you replace enforce the new policy.

same here

[irishrose]

I would just tell them that this is the policy and that is how it is. It is rude and inconsiderate of them to expect you to just be sitting there ready for them with no pay if they decide to take off on vacation. If anyone complains ask them if they would like you to stop giving notice of your vacations and days off.

Hi Bklsmum - I couldn't agree more. Some of the parents' ways of thinking just baffle me. I always try to put myself in their shoes to see how they are feeling. I wish they could see from our point of view too! Communication, no matter how much I try to establish that with them, seems to be a one-sided conversation.

We have one parent who refuses to sign this. Would you terminate in that situation? I am going in early tomorrow to talk with her so we'll see how this goes. Just wanted to see what others thought about her refusing to sign the changes to the contract.

[irishrose]

Well if it isn't YOUR daycare, you can't really make the rules. Of course though parents are not going to want to go to a different system that costs them more. But if the daycare looses employees and or money over it, then they will have to find new care. If I had a job where I got sent home because I wasn't needed, and then couldn't pay my bills, I would be finding a new job.

Hi Thriftylady - as far as ownership - no. I do not own the daycare. My title - I suppose, would be assistant administrator. I am currently in the process of being trained to take over the business as the current owner/admin is planning to retire soon. She leaves quite a bit up to me, but all final decisions are ran by her before they are finalized. When I do take over the business, I strongly feel that I will be changing to weekly tuition rather than an hourly rate. It seems like it would take the stress off of situations like these!

[irishrose]

It sounds like a few people need an explanation of "group care" and what it means to be part of a group.

Individual needs aside, being a part of a large group requires a bit of consideration in regards to ratio's and safety.

IMHO, most places require a certain amount of advance notice before taking time off so I fail to see why it would be such a big deal for parents to give a week's notice about vacation time... are they all seriously deciding the night before to take a week off?

If so, where do they work that they can simply decide that kind of thing on a moments notice?

The way I see it, there are two choices.... either give advance notice and NOT pay or give notice the night before but still PAY. Not a hard decision.

Hi Blackcat - I like the way you think. So many parents think that we are doing a favor for them. But - this is our business and it is how we make our living.

Not all the parents are bad at giving us notice, in fact, some are truly wonderful and will let us know weeks in advance! There are three families though that will tell us the day before that they are taking the next few days off. All three moms are in the healthcare field. I do not know much about being in that field - maybe they have quite a bit of flexibility in their jobs?? However - when they first started with us - we were told that their schedule would be Mon-Fri, full-time. Sometimes, that's not always the case and we do not find out about changes until a day or two before. And by then, it's too late to fill the spots with some of our part-time children. Then, either I tell staff that they aren't needed or I cut my own hours. I didn't think advanced notice was too much to ask. Are we being too picky?