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    Frustrated Today...Need An Outlet To Stay Positive

    I've just been frustrated this week with parents.

    One of my dck has been out sick all week. The parent waits until 5 minutes after the child is suppose to arrive to call and tell me that child will not be coming that day. The other days, the parent didn't even contact me, I had to text them and ask if child was coming that day. It's just really frustrating because I have to wake up 2 hours earlier especially for that child and sit around and wait for child's arrival, wondering if they will ever show up. I am sure that the parent would not like it if someone treated them in such an inconsiderate way.

    Then this morning, I had a parent bring their kid 25 minutes early. I was not prepared for children to arrive yet. I said "I wasn't expecting you so soon, so I am not completely ready yet." The parent says "well I had to get to work early and the other parent is already at work." Well that's great and all, but you need to let me know that you will be bringing the child early. Mind you, these are the parents that show up 10 minutes late every day so I was not expecting them to come early.

    It is just so frustrating! I feel like these people take advantage of me and are being incredibly inconsiderate. I am a person with a job just like them. They would not like it if their boss made them come in early without notice or made them stay late every day. Sometimes I wish I could get out of the childcare business so I don't have to deal with this sort of thing.

    I just needed to vent. How do you all handle these problems with your parents?
  • MrsSteinel'sHouse
    Daycare.com Member
    • Aug 2012
    • 1509

    #2
    On the late end I would start calling 5 min after drop off time because you want to make sure they didn't oversleep
    I am assuming you are getting paid anyway. So yes, pain to be up early but for me I am a morning person so I would just get other things done.
    My parents know if they are to be my "first drop off" or what time my first is so if they are going to be earlier than that ... they need to let me know! I am usually very subtle about things like that. Wow! Your kids will be my first at 8 tomorrow so I get to sleep in!! I can roll out of bed at 7:50 and see you at 8! So don't be pulling in early and catching me in my pjs! :: If a parent says something like we may be a bit early tomorrow- I say M&E are here at 7- did you need any earlier than that? My parents are really good at keeping times though. I did have one dad show up EARLY one day and I was not expecting it- I was in pjs... I looked at him and said is there something wrong???? You are really early- I am still in my pjs! He went.. oh no.. I just have to be at work early and didn't realize she would be your first. Well, you are! He NEVER did that again.. always called.

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    • Annalee
      Daycare.com Member
      • Jul 2012
      • 5864

      #3
      Originally posted by Unregistered
      I've just been frustrated this week with parents.

      One of my dck has been out sick all week. The parent waits until 5 minutes after the child is suppose to arrive to call and tell me that child will not be coming that day. The other days, the parent didn't even contact me, I had to text them and ask if child was coming that day. It's just really frustrating because I have to wake up 2 hours earlier especially for that child and sit around and wait for child's arrival, wondering if they will ever show up. I am sure that the parent would not like it if someone treated them in such an inconsiderate way.

      Then this morning, I had a parent bring their kid 25 minutes early. I was not prepared for children to arrive yet. I said "I wasn't expecting you so soon, so I am not completely ready yet." The parent says "well I had to get to work early and the other parent is already at work." Well that's great and all, but you need to let me know that you will be bringing the child early. Mind you, these are the parents that show up 10 minutes late every day so I was not expecting them to come early.

      It is just so frustrating! I feel like these people take advantage of me and are being incredibly inconsiderate. I am a person with a job just like them. They would not like it if their boss made them come in early without notice or made them stay late every day. Sometimes I wish I could get out of the childcare business so I don't have to deal with this sort of thing.

      I just needed to vent. How do you all handle these problems with your parents?
      I was like this yesterday. Frustration is no respecter of persons, new or seasoned provider. I called my mentor yesterday morning about an issue with a parent. She suggested I write a genuine letter to all and place in cubby holes which is what she usually does. So I did. I put something nice, then stated the issue, which is clearly addressed in handbook/contract/policy and asked all to comply with my guidelines.....made me feel much better especially when so-called parent come in all jolly this morning saying "I found a solution to my issue, here is what i am going to do" leaving me out of her equation....which is how it should have been anyway. I have rules, just follow them and there will be NO problem. I think she got it!

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