Would You Turn Unlicensed Providers In?

[Heidi]

I'm a registered user, but I want to say this without getting flamed. Wednesday, you have a certain standard that you want others to use when dealing with you, but you don't use that same tack with others. You've said some pretty rude comments yourself and sometimes you like to add to the drama. We're getting back on topic and you're talking about drama. Also, I've PMed people in the past. A lot of users are tired of your agenda. Michael has already spoken on the topic. Maybe you should PM him. You turn a lot of topics into your soapbox and I know I'm not the only one who's tired of it.

Yeah, I'm not going to flame you, but I don't see how this belongs here. :confused:

Wednesday, sit on your hands, honey.

[NightOwl]

****sitting on hands ****

But I must say, yet another perfect example. You logged out so you wouldn't be held accountable by other members. You just prooved my point.

Please point out where I have "an agenda", caused drama or stirred the pot, or have been rude where no one has been rude to me first.

If Michael had a problem with me, or any of these other ladies, I'm sure they would tell me (without logging out to do so).

So if you don't like me, there's an "ignore" button on here somewhere. But I'm not going anywhere until Michael or BC tells me to.

Sorry Heidi. I guess I didn't sit on my hands after all.

[Unregistered]

****sitting on hands ****

But I must say, yet another perfect example. You logged out so you wouldn't be held accountable by other members. You just prooved my point.

Please point out where I have "an agenda", caused drama or stirred the pot, or have been rude where no one has been rude to me first.

If Michael had a problem with me, or any of these other ladies, I'm sure they would tell me (without logging out to do so).

So if you don't like me, there's an "ignore" button on here somewhere. But I'm not going anywhere until Michael or BC tells me to.

Sorry Heidi. I guess I didn't sit on my hands after all.

See. No one wants you to "go anywhere". More dramah!!! I'm just saying, people are tired of hearing you say you don't like there's an anonymous option. It seems like you bring it up on half the threads you comment on. If you have a problem with it, bring it to admin via PM. It's annoying to keep hearing your agenda. Just as you always play the victim card. You make it seem like I said everyone hates you and stop posting here. I just said, it's gets annoying to hear you grinding your ax about the same issue and making other topics off topic. Thus, drama. How would you like if someone brought the same thing over and over and over again when it's not the time or the place? I only bring up you are rude often, because you're the first to get in a huff when someone isn't nice to you. I think we should all be nice to each other. It's kind of hard to honor that when someone is snarky and always playing the victim.

Speaking of drama, I've been logged in with my username for a bit today and so were you. Just as you were logged on before H replied and you said nothing. H asked you to say nothing, and after that you reply. Why? Why not before? I saw you online. Please don't say you weren't.

[midaycare]

See. No one wants you to "go anywhere". More dramah!!! I'm just saying, people are tired of hearing you say you don't like there's an anonymous option. It seems like you bring it up on half the threads you comment on. If you have a problem with it, bring it to admin via PM. It's annoying to keep hearing your agenda. Just as you always play the victim card. You make it seem like I said everyone hates you and stop posting here. I just said, it's gets annoying to hear you grinding your ax about the same issue and making other topics off topic. Thus, drama. How would you like if someone brought the same thing over and over and over again when it's not the time or the place? I only bring up you are rude often, because you're the first to get in a huff when someone isn't nice to you. I think we should all be nice to each other. It's kind of hard to honor that when someone is snarky and always playing the victim.

Speaking of drama, I've been logged in with my username for a bit today and so were you. Just as you were logged on before H replied and you said nothing. H asked you to say nothing, and after that you reply. Why? Why not before? I saw you online. Please don't say you weren't.

I think you are really over thinking this. This is a place to go and talk about our daycare experiences, or ask questions. Once in a while we have a good debate.

We all have real lives with real issues, and I doubt that Wednesday is spending one second thinking about this today.

Registered users, unregistered users, eh who cares. It's hard to have an agenda on a place we all spend a few minutes a day to relax and talk to others in our profession.

[MOM OF 4]

Personally, I think if there's a specific person you have a problem with, just PM them. Unless they are lying or doing something illegal or to purposefully hurt someone, there's no need to call them out.

On topic:
I have turned in illegal daycares before, but usally only if I noticed they had a lot of kids or were really bad at what they did and made it dangerous to the kids in care.

I left those neighbors I was PRETTY sure were running an illegal child care, with a couple of kids alone, because honestly I could never really "prove" that those kids were unrelated, even thuogh I suspected they were.

[NightOwl]

See. No one wants you to "go anywhere". More dramah!!! I'm just saying, people are tired of hearing you say you don't like there's an anonymous option. It seems like you bring it up on half the threads you comment on. If you have a problem with it, bring it to admin via PM. It's annoying to keep hearing your agenda. Just as you always play the victim card. You make it seem like I said everyone hates you and stop posting here. I just said, it's gets annoying to hear you grinding your ax about the same issue and making other topics off topic. Thus, drama. How would you like if someone brought the same thing over and over and over again when it's not the time or the place? I only bring up you are rude often, because you're the first to get in a huff when someone isn't nice to you. I think we should all be nice to each other. It's kind of hard to honor that when someone is snarky and always playing the victim.

Speaking of drama, I've been logged in with my username for a bit today and so were you. Just as you were logged on before H replied and you said nothing. H asked you to say nothing, and after that you reply. Why? Why not before? I saw you online. Please don't say you weren't.

Who exactly started this "dramah"?? That would be you.
I post on this site, 95% of the time, from my phone. So unless my phone dies, it's going to show me as logged on even if it's 4am and I'm asleep. And even if I am actually on this site, who knows where I'd be? I'm not sitting on a thread waiting for responses. I post on lots of threads here.

People don't like that I express my opinion on anonymous posters? Freedom of speech. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. NO ONE has told me to shut up about it anyway.

It "seems" like half my posts are about unregistereds? "Seems" being the key word. That's your perception.

Again, what is my agenda?

I make it seem like you said everyone hates me and I'm playing the victim card? Again, your perception. And honey, I am no victim.

You think we should all be nice to each other? In what world do you consider this nice?

I am respectful, honest, and offer my opinion. Isn't that what a forum is all about?

You are, repeatedly, proving my point about unregistered users. You must feel brave behind that unregistered user title. So brave that you're willing to be ugly about all this.

This is my opinion. I'm not lobbying to have people removed. I'm lobbying for people to be made accountable for being openly hateful, like the person in the pp who called someone stupid.

Don't like it? Ignore me. Won't hurt my feelings one bit. Am I getting snarky? Damn straight I am. Because you've accused me of playing the victim card, being unduly rude, and hijacking threads to suit my "agenda". YOU hijacked this thread.

I apologize to those reading this thread for what it's ACTUALLY supposed to be about. But I can't let this go unanswered. I hope you understand. And if you have an issue with me, please pm me. I am not confrontational or rude to those who are not that way toward me, I can take criticism. And I won't think any less of you for it. Unless you do it as unregistered....

[NightOwl]

Personally, I think if there's a specific person you have a problem with, just PM them. Unless they are lying or doing something illegal or to purposefully hurt someone, there's no need to call them out.

On topic:
I have turned in illegal daycares before, but usally only if I noticed they had a lot of kids or were really bad at what they did and made it dangerous to the kids in care.

I left those neighbors I was PRETTY sure were running an illegal child care, with a couple of kids alone, because honestly I could never really "prove" that those kids were unrelated, even thuogh I suspected they were.

[NightOwl]

I think you are really over thinking this. This is a place to go and talk about our daycare experiences, or ask questions. Once in a while we have a good debate.

We all have real lives with real issues, and I doubt that Wednesday is spending one second thinking about this today.

Registered users, unregistered users, eh who cares. It's hard to have an agenda on a place we all spend a few minutes a day to relax and talk to others in our profession.

[Unregistered]

Who exactly started this "dramah"?? That would be you.
I post on this site, 95% of the time, from my phone. So unless my phone dies, it's going to show me as logged on even if it's 4am and I'm asleep. And even if I am actually on this site, who knows where I'd be? I'm not sitting on a thread waiting for responses. I post on lots of threads here.

People don't like that I express my opinion on anonymous posters? Freedom of speech. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. NO ONE has told me to shut up about it anyway.

It "seems" like half my posts are about unregistereds? "Seems" being the key word. That's your perception.

Again, what is my agenda?

I make it seem like you said everyone hates me and I'm playing the victim card? Again, your perception. And honey, I am no victim.

You think we should all be nice to each other? In what world do you consider this nice?

I am respectful, honest, and offer my opinion. Isn't that what a forum is all about?

You are, repeatedly, proving my point about unregistered users. You must feel brave behind that unregistered user title. So brave that you're willing to be ugly about all this.

This is my opinion. I'm not lobbying to have people removed. I'm lobbying for people to be made accountable for being openly hateful, like the person in the pp who called someone stupid.

Don't like it? Ignore me. Won't hurt my feelings one bit. Am I getting snarky? Damn straight I am. Because you've accused me of playing the victim card, being unduly rude, and hijacking threads to suit my "agenda". YOU hijacked this thread.

I apologize to those reading this thread for what it's ACTUALLY supposed to be about. But I can't let this go unanswered. I hope you understand. And if you have an issue with me, please pm me. I am not confrontational or rude to those who are not that way toward me, I can take criticism. And I won't think any less of you for it. Unless you do it as unregistered....

Wednesday, you always have to be the victim. I started the drama? :/ No one mentioned taking away the anonymous feature until you did. That is your agenda, but go ahead deny that. Notice the thread was getting back on topic until you decided to bring up your agenda about banning the anonymous feature. You do it a lot. You might not "perceive it that way", but a least two other registered users do. I know, because I've talked to them about it. Just as I was looking through your posts to make sure I wasn't "perceiving things", you often write things that cause drama. Like when a newbie asked a question and you replied basically saying "I don't know the answer!". Um, why would you reply like that? The board is like real life. Would you go around irl saying every thing that popped into your head? You can, but in some people, yeah more than one , it looks like pot stirring... I'm sure you'll reply how I'm mean and whatever, but I guess that's your "perception".

[SignMeUp]

Would I report an illegally unlicensed provider?

Um. I don't know ::

[Blackcat31]

Well, this is the second time this thread has gotten a little too dramatic.

Bummer.