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  • coolconfidentme
    Daycare.com Member
    • Oct 2012
    • 1541

    Same name...

    What do you do when you have DCKs with the same name? You call or direct one & the other gets confused. Neither have nicknames. Do I give them nicknames so they are confused here? Adding a 1 or 2 behind there name doesn't work btw. :confused:
  • BumbleBee
    Daycare.com Member
    • Jun 2012
    • 2380

    #2
    Last name initial? I had 2 Addy's once. We called them Addy B. & Addy H. Would something like that work?

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    • bklsmum
      Daycare.com Member
      • Feb 2014
      • 565

      #3
      I use their first and last name when I have DCKs with the same first name..

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      • Shell
        Daycare.com Member
        • Jul 2013
        • 1765

        #4
        Originally posted by Trummynme
        Last name initial? I had 2 Addy's once. We called them Addy B. & Addy H. Would something like that work?
        I had four Matthew's a few years back- parents wanted full name used, not Matt or Matty, so we used initials after the name.

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        • hope
          Daycare.com Member
          • Feb 2013
          • 1513

          #5
          Not sure what age your kiddies are but I call all the kids under one baby and then their name...so baby emma, baby Michael. I do this so that all the kids are aware that they need to be extra careful around the babies. There are rules for babies....certain toys not to be played with around babies, not to run or jump near them. This also help cut down on any duplicate names. One is baby sue and the other is big girl sue. Most of my kids are teachers kids so they "graduate" to big girl after they come back from summer vacation.

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          • PolkaTots
            Extreme Multi-tasker
            • Sep 2011
            • 247

            #6
            I had 2 Emma's once...one was 2 and the other 4. The kids took it upon themselves to call them Big Emma & Little Emma...even though I addressed them by first and last name. The girls are now 6 & 8 and still refer to each other this way

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            • Annalee
              Daycare.com Member
              • Jul 2012
              • 5864

              #7
              Originally posted by coolconfidentme
              What do you do when you have DCKs with the same name? You call or direct one & the other gets confused. Neither have nicknames. Do I give them nicknames so they are confused here? Adding a 1 or 2 behind there name doesn't work btw. :confused:
              We had 3 Matthew's one time and called them Matt-man, Matt-Matt, and Matthew... ::

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              • CraftyMom
                Daycare.com Member
                • Jan 2014
                • 2285

                #8
                I've had this twice, very confusing for the kids for a long time because they were all 1.5-2 and didn't get the initial after their name. I would say something to one child and the other would look at me like I was crazy...like "why are you telling me to stop whining? I'm not even talking!" That type of thing

                When I had 2 Brayden's my 2yo son renamed them Yellow Brayden and Brown Brayden since one had blonde hair and the other had brown hair ::

                ETA: to answer the original question, I don't have a solution

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                • nannyde
                  All powerful, all knowing daycare whisperer
                  • Mar 2010
                  • 7320

                  #9
                  I nickname all the kids. I only use their given name when they are in trouble.
                  http://www.amazon.com/Daycare-Whispe...=doing+daycare

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                  • daycarediva
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Jul 2012
                    • 11698

                    #10
                    I had three COHEN's this year. Two with the same last initial, too. UGH!

                    Big Cohen was OBVIOUSLY tallest and Little Cohen was smallest. Middle Cohen ended up being just Cohen. ::

                    SOOOO confusing.

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                    • Crazy8
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Jun 2011
                      • 2769

                      #11
                      I would probably just tack on their last name initial. If its a popular/common name chances are that is what they will end up doing in school too. I have never had 2 of the same but had a Maddy and an Addy once and that was confusing enough!!!

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                      • Blackcat31
                        • Oct 2010
                        • 36124

                        #12
                        Seems I always have two with the same name.

                        I guess, it's never really been an issue because I don't call out to them, I'm usually looking right at them when I speak or am gesturing towards them.

                        If I did have to call out to them, if the wrong one answered, I'd just say "Np, the other Jane" and laugh.

                        Most kids with common names get pretty used to it.

                        My DD has a name that is predominantly male. I'd be upset if someone simply started calling her "Girl R" verses just "R". I prefer her given name. It's why we chose it.

                        I usually have 10-12 kids and like I said, have had multiples of names almost every year (once I had 3 Addie's ) and it's never been a big deal or something we couldn't manage.

                        Plus, any confusion can be viewed as a learning experience as I doubt daycare will be the first place a commonly named child will experience this dilemma.
                        Last edited by Blackcat31; 06-16-2014, 12:05 PM.

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                        • CedarCreek
                          Advanced Daycare.com Member
                          • Jan 2013
                          • 1600

                          #13
                          I used to middle-name them.

                          If I were to have had 2 Johns, I would use their middle name after to distinguish between the two.

                          In my experience, kids loved hearing their middle names. They don't hear it a lot.

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                          • SilverSabre25
                            Senior Member
                            • Aug 2010
                            • 7585

                            #14
                            I once had, at the same time:
                            Ella
                            Elly
                            Elliot
                            and my daughter Olivia (so, similar initial vowel)
                            then my niece Eliana came over....
                            Hee hee! Look, I have a signature!

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                            • MarinaVanessa
                              Family Childcare Home
                              • Jan 2010
                              • 7211

                              #15
                              I had 2 Gabby's at one time, neither liked being called Gabriella. I called them Big Gabby and Little Gabby even though there was only 2 months between them and they were ok with that.

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