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  • midaycare
    Daycare.com Member
    • Jan 2014
    • 5658

    McDonalds Mom Strikes Again

    Last week I had trouble with a mom of a new dcg who kept bringing Mcdonalds and donuts in the morning at drop off. I finally curbed that, but today dcm complains that on Friday her dd was starving when she picked her up. Well, sure, she won't eat what I fix because you buy her yummy crappy food. Who wants quinoa and pears when Mom buys you any fast food you want?
  • Blackcat31
    • Oct 2010
    • 36124

    #2
    "You know DCM, Sally is served the same food options as everyone else. How much, if any she eats is up to her."

    Then I would just stand there and smile BIG

    If DCM continues to try "but she is hungry" tactic, let her know that of course McDonald's is more appealing but SHE knew signing up that you don't serve that and other than forcing the child to eat (which I know you can't do) Mom will need to talk to DCM NOT you about this issue.

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    • midaycare
      Daycare.com Member
      • Jan 2014
      • 5658

      #3
      Originally posted by Blackcat31
      "You know DCM, Sally is served the same food options as everyone else. How much, if any she eats is up to her."

      Then I would just stand there and smile BIG

      If DCM continues to try "but she is hungry" tactic, let her know that of course McDonald's is more appealing but SHE knew signing up that you don't serve that and other than forcing the child to eat (which I know you can't do) Mom will need to talk to DCM NOT you about this issue.
      I totally agree, I'm just so frustrated with this one. I can't get her to even eat fruit!

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      • playground1

        #4
        Originally posted by midaycare
        I totally agree, I'm just so frustrated with this one. I can't get her to even eat fruit!
        Don't stress about it. She is old enough to understand that she will stay hungry as long as she doesn't eat. Remind mom to offer healthy food at home as well. Probably won't do it, but it's worth a shot.

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        • midaycare
          Daycare.com Member
          • Jan 2014
          • 5658

          #5
          Originally posted by queen_of_the_playground
          Don't stress about it. She is old enough to understand that she will stay hungry as long as she doesn't eat. Remind mom to offer healthy food at home as well. Probably won't do it, but it's worth a shot.
          I'm hoping when the SA kids come she will do better. My SA ones are good eaters and she looks up to older kids. Right now she is the oldest and running the show.

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          • NeedaVaca
            Daycare.com Member
            • Mar 2012
            • 2276

            #6
            Plus, they probably had a afternoon snack but by the time they get picked up they are getting hungry again.

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            • Blackcat31
              • Oct 2010
              • 36124

              #7
              Originally posted by NeedaVaca
              Plus, they probably had a afternoon snack but by the time they get picked up they are getting hungry again.
              I actually have a blurb in my handbook about that.

              I say something like the kids eat healthy and at regular intervals but for those kids being picked up at the end of the day, they WILL be hungry as the time frame is about perfect for dinner time at home. I also mention something about playing hard and burning up all those calories/fuel so Yes! Your child WILL be hungry at pick up.

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              • Laurel
                Daycare.com Member
                • Mar 2013
                • 3218

                #8
                Originally posted by midaycare
                Last week I had trouble with a mom of a new dcg who kept bringing Mcdonalds and donuts in the morning at drop off. I finally curbed that, but today dcm complains that on Friday her dd was starving when she picked her up. Well, sure, she won't eat what I fix because you buy her yummy crappy food. Who wants quinoa and pears when Mom buys you any fast food you want?
                IF you care to (not that you should have to), you could put the uneaten part of her p.m. snack in a baggie. Then when mom picks up and says something just say "Oh yeah wait, I have her fruit she didn't eat at snack time right here. Would you like to take it?" If it is something that doesn't save well just give her a banana or box of raisins. :: I wonder if that would shut her up.

                Laurel

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                • midaycare
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Jan 2014
                  • 5658

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Blackcat31
                  I actually have a blurb in my handbook about that.

                  I say something like the kids eat healthy and at regular intervals but for those kids being picked up at the end of the day, they WILL be hungry as the time frame is about perfect for dinner time at home. I also mention something about playing hard and burning up all those calories/fuel so Yes! Your child WILL be hungry at pick up.
                  Good point! She doesn't get picked up until 6:30-usually closer to 6:45 pm.

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                  • midaycare
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Jan 2014
                    • 5658

                    #10
                    Originally posted by Laurel
                    IF you care to (not that you should have to), you could put the uneaten part of her p.m. snack in a baggie. Then when mom picks up and says something just say "Oh yeah wait, I have her fruit she didn't eat at snack time right here. Would you like to take it?" If it is something that doesn't save well just give her a banana or box of raisins. :: I wonder if that would shut her up.

                    Laurel
                    Love it!

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                    • Laurel
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Mar 2013
                      • 3218

                      #11
                      Originally posted by midaycare
                      Love it!
                      Glad to help!

                      Laurel

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                      • Mister Sir Husband
                        cook, cleaner, bug killer
                        • May 2013
                        • 306

                        #12
                        I have it right in my paperwork that chef Boyardee isn't served here. If I serve spaghetti, I boil the noodles and make the meatballs myself. And I truly to agree, if kids are raised on junk, the taste of real food isn't gonna be appealing.
                        Chief cook, bottle washer & spider killer...

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                        • daycare
                          Advanced Daycare.com *********
                          • Feb 2011
                          • 16259

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Laurel
                          IF you care to (not that you should have to), you could put the uneaten part of her p.m. snack in a baggie. Then when mom picks up and says something just say "Oh yeah wait, I have her fruit she didn't eat at snack time right here. Would you like to take it?" If it is something that doesn't save well just give her a banana or box of raisins. :: I wonder if that would shut her up.

                          Laurel
                          be cautious about providing food for the ride home. I was at a LIC meeting where a lady shared a story about a kid that almost choked to death and died on food that was provided by the dc PROVIDER. How that turned out that way I am not too sure, but I would just make certain that DCK knows to hold out on eating the healthy foods becuase mom will have that MaC CRAP waiting for her. Kids are stupid.

                          But sounds like this parent is.............

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                          • midaycare
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Jan 2014
                            • 5658

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Mister Sir Husband
                            I have it right in my paperwork that chef Boyardee isn't served here. If I serve spaghetti, I boil the noodles and make the meatballs myself. And I truly to agree, if kids are raised on junk, the taste of real food isn't gonna be appealing.
                            Same here. I have a half a page on this. Why do I think no one reads the handbook

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                            • EntropyControlSpecialist
                              Embracing the chaos.
                              • Mar 2012
                              • 7466

                              #15
                              Originally posted by midaycare
                              Same here. I have a half a page on this. Why do I think no one reads the handbook
                              Then I would simply re-print that page and send it on home again.

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