I am a regular member but logged out for privacy. I was hoping to get some advice.
I have a 3 yo son and 5 yo daughter. They are very close with my parents (mostly my mom). My parents recently (after 40 years of marriage) separated.
My mom has been talking poorly about my dad a lot since the separation. I don't mind her talking with me about it, but do not want my children to hear it. A few times my mom has said things in front of my children, and I have pointed it out and requested that she stop.
This past weekend, my mother watched my kids. When I came to get them, she again made some sarcastic comments about my dad (in front of my kids). I don't think she even realizes she is doing it.
Now I am worried what she is saying while I am not around. I want to ask my children about it, but don't know how to approach it or how to ask. I want to know what is going on, but at the same time do not want to plant seeds in their heads about it.
I don't want to not allow her to see them, as she has told me that me that they are her only joy in life at the moment.
This has been such a difficult time and I am trying my best to shelter my babies from this situation.
Has anyone else gone through this? What do I say/do? Please help. TYIA!
I have a 3 yo son and 5 yo daughter. They are very close with my parents (mostly my mom). My parents recently (after 40 years of marriage) separated.
My mom has been talking poorly about my dad a lot since the separation. I don't mind her talking with me about it, but do not want my children to hear it. A few times my mom has said things in front of my children, and I have pointed it out and requested that she stop.
This past weekend, my mother watched my kids. When I came to get them, she again made some sarcastic comments about my dad (in front of my kids). I don't think she even realizes she is doing it.
Now I am worried what she is saying while I am not around. I want to ask my children about it, but don't know how to approach it or how to ask. I want to know what is going on, but at the same time do not want to plant seeds in their heads about it.
I don't want to not allow her to see them, as she has told me that me that they are her only joy in life at the moment.
This has been such a difficult time and I am trying my best to shelter my babies from this situation.
Has anyone else gone through this? What do I say/do? Please help. TYIA!
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