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Had a daycare family for about 1 & 1/2. Loved the boy (just turned 3 yrs), didn't see mom much since SHE worked, dad was unemployed and was a jerk most of the time (I had posted stuff about him in the past), well they termd July 1 because now his mom is unemployed. Glad only because I HATED seeing the dad.
About 3 weeks ago mom called and said she wanted 2 of my daycare kids parents numbers because she wanted to set up some play dates, her son was really missing them. Well of course I said I couldn't just give her their numbers I'd need to talk with them first she said that was fine. WELL I know alot about this family I'm sure they must suspect I know because they are neighbors to some good friends of ours & the dad goes over and "bothers" ur friend quite often, the stuff they have told me I believe they aren't liars, they hear them yelling at each other all hours of the night, doors slamming, yelling at the boy and dad is always wasted and smokes pot. SO I obviously wouldn't want to call these people and tell them oh so and so wants to play and not say anything but then I dont' think it's right for me to say oh so and so wants a play date but these things happen and I wouldn't think it would be ok to go over there. SO I chose to just not call them (well I tried once)and hoped she didn't call back, well she called and asked if I got a hold of them and I said no, I told her that the one family doesn't live nearby any more and they have a new baby so I haven't been able to reach her (which I did try calling her because she didn't like this dad either, we never "discussed" him she made a comment that he made her uncomfortable and he seemed strange and I just said I understand) so I was going to let her know that way I wasn't lying. She said oh well that's fine I'd love to drive over there and pick him up. Then the other family I havent' called but their son is way older than theirs and I don't know what to say to either of them. The mom hasn't called again however there was a call but no message left a couple days ago. What would you do? just call the parents and leave it up to them and not say anything or what?
About 3 weeks ago mom called and said she wanted 2 of my daycare kids parents numbers because she wanted to set up some play dates, her son was really missing them. Well of course I said I couldn't just give her their numbers I'd need to talk with them first she said that was fine. WELL I know alot about this family I'm sure they must suspect I know because they are neighbors to some good friends of ours & the dad goes over and "bothers" ur friend quite often, the stuff they have told me I believe they aren't liars, they hear them yelling at each other all hours of the night, doors slamming, yelling at the boy and dad is always wasted and smokes pot. SO I obviously wouldn't want to call these people and tell them oh so and so wants to play and not say anything but then I dont' think it's right for me to say oh so and so wants a play date but these things happen and I wouldn't think it would be ok to go over there. SO I chose to just not call them (well I tried once)and hoped she didn't call back, well she called and asked if I got a hold of them and I said no, I told her that the one family doesn't live nearby any more and they have a new baby so I haven't been able to reach her (which I did try calling her because she didn't like this dad either, we never "discussed" him she made a comment that he made her uncomfortable and he seemed strange and I just said I understand) so I was going to let her know that way I wasn't lying. She said oh well that's fine I'd love to drive over there and pick him up. Then the other family I havent' called but their son is way older than theirs and I don't know what to say to either of them. The mom hasn't called again however there was a call but no message left a couple days ago. What would you do? just call the parents and leave it up to them and not say anything or what?
But still I would just say sorry I will not do that.
why didn't I think of that, for some reason I kept thinking I'd need a reply from them then have to get back to the other mom:
:. To be honest with you I know foresure one of those kids without a doubt would leave them there.
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