I **** at Interviews!!!

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  • Laurel
    Daycare.com Member
    • Mar 2013
    • 3218

    #16
    I give the parent about 20 photos that I have taken during my daycare years. They really seem to like that. It shows how many activities we do both inside and out and how happy the children look.

    Laurel

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    • TwinKristi
      Family Childcare Provider
      • Aug 2013
      • 2390

      #17
      That's a great idea! An album! What kind of photo release did you have? I have thought of putting pics together for Craigslist but don't want to deal with asking parents and their response!

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      • caregiver
        Daycare.com Member
        • Dec 2010
        • 256

        #18
        Originally posted by TwinKristi
        That's a great idea! An album! What kind of photo release did you have? I have thought of putting pics together for Craigslist but don't want to deal with asking parents and their response!
        I would not recommend putting any pictures of your daycare on Craig's list.
        The reason is that there are too many weird or sick people out there and you can never really trust anyone these days. Plus if I were a parent and found that my child's picture of their daycare was on Craig's list, I would be furious. It just isn't a good idea,Sorry, even if your daycare parents say it is okay, I still would not do it.

        That said, Craig's list is where I have gotten most of my recent dck's from, you just have to be very careful. I have been really lucky in finding the kids I have now and the parents are good people. I also do not post pictures of my daycare or kids, or give my phone number or address until we have emailed for a few times, then talked on the phone before I will do a interview. It's sad when you can't trust people these days, but that is just the way the world is.

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        • TwinKristi
          Family Childcare Provider
          • Aug 2013
          • 2390

          #19
          Exactly, that's why I haven't really done it. I just don't even like using it but I have to advertise however I can at this point. Haven't had much luck with it but lots of providers have pics up or links to their website with pics, all public. I don't feel comfortable doing it so I don't.

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          • caregiver
            Daycare.com Member
            • Dec 2010
            • 256

            #20
            Originally posted by TwinKristi
            Exactly, that's why I haven't really done it. I just don't even like using it but I have to advertise however I can at this point. Haven't had much luck with it but lots of providers have pics up or links to their website with pics, all public. I don't feel comfortable doing it so I don't.
            I'm right there with you! Just don't feel comfortable posting any pics. Everything is so public today.

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            • Starburst
              Provider in Training
              • Jan 2013
              • 1522

              #21
              I have social anxiety too (and am socially inept). I've been pinning alot of interview tips and confidence tips lately.

              Here are some key things I have found on pinterest and other websites that they say can make or break an interview:

              Body Language:
              Posture- Keep your back straight and shoulders back, resist the urge to slouch in a chair or hunch over; BONUS: This will also help you look thinner and feel more confident.

              Approachability- Try to avoid using your limbs to "shield" yourself; i.e. crossing your arms or facing your body away from them when talking to them. Posture also helps with this.

              Facial Expression- Try to avoid scowling or having a blank/bored look on your face, try to smile (when appropraite) and relax your face; if your stressed it may show on your face. Maybe try to do some "facer-sizes" or a face massage to relax the muscles within a few hours before an interveiw

              Handshake- Should be firm but not too strong. Should be about the same amount of pressure in the grip as the other person is doing, possibly a little stronger. Many people still believe a strong handshake is a sign of leadership, good work ethic, and strong moral character. Also offer your (right) hand first.

              Other Factors:
              Voice-Should be even and calm but not too monotone. Try projecting your voice rather than raising it. Projecting it will help you to sound more confidant without sounding intense or too loud/shrill.

              Eye Contact- Honestly, I have problems with this too. If you have issues looking them in the eye try instead first using eye contact as long as you can then try focusing on something less intimidating like their forehead or eyebrows and just try to focus back on their eyes every couple of seconds.

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              • melilley
                Daycare.com Member
                • Oct 2012
                • 5155

                #22
                Originally posted by care giver
                I would not recommend putting any pictures of your daycare on Craig's list.
                The reason is that there are too many weird or sick people out there and you can never really trust anyone these days. Plus if I were a parent and found that my child's picture of their daycare was on Craig's list, I would be furious. It just isn't a good idea,Sorry, even if your daycare parents say it is okay, I still would not do it.

                That said, Craig's list is where I have gotten most of my recent dck's from, you just have to be very careful. I have been really lucky in finding the kids I have now and the parents are good people. I also do not post pictures of my daycare or kids, or give my phone number or address until we have emailed for a few times, then talked on the phone before I will do a interview. It's sad when you can't trust people these days, but that is just the way the world is.
                When I advertise on CL, I put pics of my daycare on it. But the only pics of the kids that I put on there are pics where you can't see any faces, even though I do have permission to do so from all of my parents. I just don't feel comfortable doing so.
                I do not put my address, but do put my phone number since anyone can get it from my state's registry anyways. I haven't gotten any weird calls.....so far.

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                • melilley
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Oct 2012
                  • 5155

                  #23
                  Originally posted by TwinKristi
                  That's a great idea! An album! What kind of photo release did you have? I have thought of putting pics together for Craigslist but don't want to deal with asking parents and their response!
                  I have a permission slip that I put in my parent folder when they enroll. They either circle that they do or do not agree to me using pictures of their children for the daycare or social media. All of my parents have agreed so far. And I don't like putting pics of the children's faces on any ads that I put out, but that's my personal preference, but I may do a fb page, but set it to private so only parents can see the pics of the kids.

                  I think a photo book or posting pics around the dc room are a great ideas to show parents when they come to an interview. I think that that is different from putting it on the web where anyone can see them.

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                  • kelsey's kids
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Apr 2013
                    • 248

                    #24
                    How did you all ask your parents to write a letter of recommendation? I had an interview yesterday and the lady ask for my letters of recommendation and I dont have any. I just feel weird asking.

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