Behavior Plan

[My3cents]

Under the circumstances, calling them at work and having him picked up and suspended immediately would have been totally appropriate.

I honestly hope they term themselves for you all. Maybe a fresh start somewhere will help him too, I don't know. All I know is you have done all you can!

yes true- but if it happens again after the suspension then I would call for immediate pick up and be done. I would make it clear to the parent that this will be my next step because you have tried everything

update us on the reaction of the parent and how it all goes

[EntropyControlSpecialist]

The child was suspended yesterday and I received a very ugly e-mail from the Dad blaming me. The child was terminated today.

[Lilbutterflie]

The child was suspended yesterday and I received a very ugly e-mail from the Dad blaming me. The child was terminated today.

I've had the same thing happen in the past. Remember- it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the fact that the parent wants to blame someone other than themselves or their child for the violent behavior!

At least it's over now!

[EntropyControlSpecialist]

A refund is now being request for the remainder of the week. I do not give refunds.

[KnoxMom]

A refund is now being request for the remainder of the week. I do not give refunds.

As long as the contract states that when a child is terminated for behavioral issues (or under any circumstance) refunds will not be provided and they signed it... you're good!

[EntropyControlSpecialist]

As long as the contract states that when a child is terminated for behavioral issues (or under any circumstance) refunds will not be provided and they signed it... you're good!

The only time a refund is said to be given is when I am closed on a day other than the holidays listed. It does say MANY times throughout that a termination can occur at any point in time.

[Lilbutterflie]

The only time a refund is said to be given is when I am closed on a day other than the holidays listed. It does say MANY times throughout that a termination can occur at any point in time.

You may want to add it to your contract that if a termination occurs midweek; no refunds are given. Unless it's outlined in your contract; I can see where the parent would request a refund for a midweek termination. The care that they have already paid for is no longer being offered.

[EntropyControlSpecialist]

You may want to add it to your contract that if a termination occurs midweek; no refunds are given. Unless it's outlined in your contract; I can see where the parent would request a refund for a midweek termination. The care that they have already paid for is no longer being offered.

I added it so that there is more clarity now. happyface

[My3cents]

Originally Posted by EntropyControlSpecialist View Post
The child was suspended yesterday and I received a very ugly e-mail from the Dad blaming me. The child was terminated today.
I've had the same thing happen in the past. Remember- it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the fact that the parent wants to blame someone other than themselves or their child for the violent behavior!

At least it's over now!
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:hughug:

I think you knew this would end this way it is just hard to get here. Hugs to you- Now you will be blessed with a new family that respects you and a child that doesn't have these issues going on. Document everything. I would respond to the Father with avenues of help for his little one and not even further any of the garbage he spilled onto you- That poor little boy needs help, parental denial is not going to help him. Give yourself a hug for trying your best-

[mom2many]

[QUOTE=My3cents;323303]

I think you knew this would end this way it is just hard to get here. Hugs to you- Now you will be blessed with a new family that respects you and a child that doesn't have these issues going on. Document everything. I would respond to the Father with avenues of help for his little one and not even further any of the garbage he spilled onto you- That poor little boy needs help, parental denial is not going to help him. Give yourself a hug for trying your best-

[MissAnn]

You did what you had to do. You don't want to term one day "too late" like I once did. Had to send a boy off to the ER for stitches. Wouldn't have happened if I had termed when I knew I should have.