I am a registered user on this forum but I had something extremely upsetting happen at my daycare and I'm really embarrassed that I let it happen. I am an older woman with grown kids and I run a daycare. Well long story short....my even older mother came into my daycare yesterday and verbally abused me in front of my daycare kids, cursing and calling me horrible names. When I told her she wasn't going to speak like that to me and that I was an adult- and to get out. Yes, voices were raised.....She punched me in the face, then stormed out.
I tried to act as if nothing was wrong for the kids. I only had little ones in care that day but I know that the whole scene was upsetting for them, and my oldest in care asked me why the mean lady hit me. I didn't cry and just went on about my routine as if nothing happened but I feel horrible that the kids witnessed that. Nothing like that has ever happened before at my daycare or at my home since I've been grown. My mother was an alcoholic growing up and these scenes were pretty common when I was young but she has been sober for about ten years.
She was telling my grown kids later that night that she would shut me up one way or another. I am so humiliated and angry that she did that. Especially in front of my dck's. I feel like the most horrible person for letting the kids see that and yelling. This is supposed to be a safe environment where they never have to be scared....
It will never happen again because she will not come here during dc hours and if she should...I will call the police.
I just feel so horrible..and right before Christmas this had to happen...
I tried to act as if nothing was wrong for the kids. I only had little ones in care that day but I know that the whole scene was upsetting for them, and my oldest in care asked me why the mean lady hit me. I didn't cry and just went on about my routine as if nothing happened but I feel horrible that the kids witnessed that. Nothing like that has ever happened before at my daycare or at my home since I've been grown. My mother was an alcoholic growing up and these scenes were pretty common when I was young but she has been sober for about ten years.
She was telling my grown kids later that night that she would shut me up one way or another. I am so humiliated and angry that she did that. Especially in front of my dck's. I feel like the most horrible person for letting the kids see that and yelling. This is supposed to be a safe environment where they never have to be scared....
It will never happen again because she will not come here during dc hours and if she should...I will call the police.
I just feel so horrible..and right before Christmas this had to happen...
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