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I have a friend that is unlicensed. She has been watching two children for the last year, both are friends of the family. I haven't talked to her in awhile, until this week. She invites me over today and I was shocked
Her house has always been spotless and neat and perfect. Always. Today it was a disaster. Complete disaster. Stuff everywhere. Not dirty, just a mess. Dishes, laundry, mail, junk. Wow. I have never ever seen her house like that. Worse, she didn't even seem to notice.
I find out she now has five children. One child at the table eating alone. When he's done,she sits another child at the table alone. She can't see him because of the stack of clothes on the table. There were three children of about one, her children 2, 8, and 11 and an older child maybe 6 sleeping in another room.
To top it off, most of the children were playing in the play room and were basically unsupervised while she sat on the couch. She then proceeded to tell me that she had to go on an antidepressent and she can't wait until her daughter goes to school and she is done with all of this. She has two of the children only for another week until they start school. but she is miserable. I have never seen her this way.
If I report her she will know it is me. She's not necessarily neglecting the children, but I am concerned. It honestly was the longest hour of my life. I couldn't wait to get out of there.
I have a friend that is unlicensed. She has been watching two children for the last year, both are friends of the family. I haven't talked to her in awhile, until this week. She invites me over today and I was shocked
Her house has always been spotless and neat and perfect. Always. Today it was a disaster. Complete disaster. Stuff everywhere. Not dirty, just a mess. Dishes, laundry, mail, junk. Wow. I have never ever seen her house like that. Worse, she didn't even seem to notice.
I find out she now has five children. One child at the table eating alone. When he's done,she sits another child at the table alone. She can't see him because of the stack of clothes on the table. There were three children of about one, her children 2, 8, and 11 and an older child maybe 6 sleeping in another room.
To top it off, most of the children were playing in the play room and were basically unsupervised while she sat on the couch. She then proceeded to tell me that she had to go on an antidepressent and she can't wait until her daughter goes to school and she is done with all of this. She has two of the children only for another week until they start school. but she is miserable. I have never seen her this way.
If I report her she will know it is me. She's not necessarily neglecting the children, but I am concerned. It honestly was the longest hour of my life. I couldn't wait to get out of there.
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