Termed DCB's Parents 30 Minutes Late

[momofboys]

It is sad I just taught my daughter how to dial 911 in the event of an emergency. I hate that I have to even think about that in a daycare situation. DCD does seem a bit unstable to me- very passive aggressive. I am also surprised that they are treating me so poorly and still bringing their child to care when he is sick. I have been taking good care of this child and they are taking advantage of me. I'm 9 weeks pregnant and the stress this family is causing me is affecting me a lot. I am losing a lot of sleep, feeling a lot of anxiety, getting headaches, etc. I just pray that it is all reversible and that my baby will be okay. I know they are probably trashing me to everyone they know.

We are now at 1 hour past the time I text them to come.

Call emergency back-ups NOW! I would also text them to say they owe you late fees for not coming within a reasonable timeframe. SOrry you have to deal with this - less stress coming your way - that's a reason to celebrate!

[countrymom]

listen lady, put on your big girl pants and start acting like a boss and take charge of the situation. You feel threatened, call the police non emergency number and ask them to come to your house, they will do it. Second, call all emergency numbers, keep calling them, even if its at work, don't text them call them. Have the child ready and waiting by the door, meet them at the door. Don't talk to them, send them on their way. You should have termed long ago, but you should have said something yesterday when they came late. Your showing them that you can easily be walked all over and treated like crap. Take charge NOW!!

[SunshineMama]

He is FINALLY gone! No issues. I handed DCD the child and his bag and said goodbye and shut the door.

To everyone who said I brought this upon myself: You are right. I was brought up in an environment where I was to always do as I was told with no questions, no matter the consequence to myself. I am learning and my backbone is growing. I have since changed my policies a lot. It was very hard for me to term this family, despite how they have been treating me because I have a problem standing up for myself. It was super hard for me to even call them to get him today. I don't know why I am still like this I have learned so much from this whole experience though and am not going to go through it again. This was the first time I have had to do all of this so I think if I have to do it again it will be easier.

Thank God he is gone!

[SunnyDay]

Thank goodness it is all over!

[sharlan]

Lesson learned, now it's time to regroup and move on.

[MarinaVanessa]

The good thing is that they didn't blow up at you during pick up. And the best thing is that at least you don't have to worry about them anymore. Too bad for the next child care provider, I hope thay get a nanny or someone that doesn't have small children so that they don't get whatever DCB has.

[WImom]

Have a great vacation - hopefully you all stay healthy. Glad this is all over for you!!

[Heidi]

Lesson learned, now it's time to regroup and move on.

Time to count your blessings!

1. vacation
2. new baby
3........

[DaisyMamma]

I'm sure you feel very relieved. Good for you to call dcp today. Also, not all parents will act this horrible when you term.

[My3cents]

He is FINALLY gone! No issues. I handed DCD the child and his bag and said goodbye and shut the door.

To everyone who said I brought this upon myself: You are right. I was brought up in an environment where I was to always do as I was told with no questions, no matter the consequence to myself. I am learning and my backbone is growing. I have since changed my policies a lot. It was very hard for me to term this family, despite how they have been treating me because I have a problem standing up for myself. It was super hard for me to even call them to get him today. I don't know why I am still like this I have learned so much from this whole experience though and am not going to go through it again. This was the first time I have had to do all of this so I think if I have to do it again it will be easier.

Thank God he is gone!

It takes practice to grab onto that backbone. If you have almost everyone on here backing you up.........well maybe you should go with that. It is hard, there are a lot of attachments that have to be broken. You were caring for a sick child who needed you, and you loved. It is hard not to let our feelings get in the way of our business. As hard as it was for you to do this, it was hard for everyone on this board to watch you put up with it.

CPS- I might give them a heads up to cover your butt. Make the call and just let them know what you have experienced with this family. They will go and check it out. Might be the help this family needs. For the record, I am not big on tattle tailing........but in this case I see it as helping this little guy out when the parents clearly are not going to do it. Keep it factual and don't let your personal feelings get in the way of the phone call.

Best-

[saved4always]

I am so glad that they are gone and there was no trouble when he was picked up! I hope that you are feeling better now that it is over and that you can enjoy your vacation!!! Praying for good health for you and your family and less stress when you come back!