Ever Turned Down A Family?

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  • permanentvacation
    Advanced Daycare.com Member
    • Jun 2011
    • 2461

    #16
    I've turned down a FEW possible clients! One, many years ago, the boy went around hitting kids and taking everyone's toys during the entire interview. Neither mom nor dad said anything at all to him about his behavior. However, about every other sentence of conversation with mom, I constantly reprimanded the child! Then, he came over to me, who at the time was OBVIOUSLY pregnant, and he punched me in the stomach!!! Again, neither mom nor dad said a word to or about the kid's behavior!!! I then pointed to the dad and said, "I need you to take your son out of my house immediately!" Then I told the mother that I would NEVER watch her child and gave her a speech about how I cannot believe that her son had hit everyone in my daycare including me, an adult, and taken toys from every child in the daycare and neither she nor her husband bothered to say anything to him! I let her know how horribly they raised their child and that I don't know ANYONE who would watch their child. I told her to get out of my house and to never contact me again.

    Others, I typically say something to the effect that I don't think their child/situation and my daycare are a good fit. Often I try to suggest the type of care that I think might work better for them. Whether I think a nanny who watches their child in their home, a larger setting of a daycare center, or smaller setting with just maybe up to 3 or so kids, or a family member to watch the child would be, in my opinion, a better situation for their child and/or their needs.

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    • renodeb
      Daycare.com Member
      • Jan 2011
      • 837

      #17
      Always go with your instincts! Always, Always. Kids like that tend to color the mood of the whole group. Not every child will be a good fit to every provider.
      Debbie

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      • momma2girls
        Daycare.com Member
        • Nov 2009
        • 2283

        #18
        I have terminated and not taken families before. When I first started yrs. and yrs. ago, I took everyone!! Now I have learned the hard way- if you have a gut feeling on something, go with that gut feeling, and tell them no, it's just not a good fit for your daycare.

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        • Texasjeepgirl
          Director Licensed Care
          • Jul 2008
          • 304

          #19
          Originally posted by Catherder
          Life is too short to be miserable.

          If he is a bad fit, he is a bad fit.

          Don't let ANYONE guilt you into doing something you don't want to.

          He'd have been gone at "hits other children", here...
          DOUBLE .... NO TRIPLE..
          that first sentence...
          My motto for LIFE.

          LIFE IS TOOOOO SHORT!!

          (sorry for the big font girls.. but.. this is a short post.. so)

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