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I have dck that's been with me for over a year. During this time, her parents have split up. Rarely, will dcd pick up child(it has to go through mom first. She lets me know when he is coming) Dck and dcm are living with dcm's parents. I recentlly found out (by dcm) that she has a boyfriend. He also has at least 1 child. Anyway, dck and dcm go out to eat almost every night, they are always going/doing something every night. Mom says do you want to go here, do you want to go there. They were just at disneyworld for a week. they went with mom's bf.
Now I found out, mom is going for assistance! don't know what all she is going for. I do know however, that I will not get involved in subsidy. I've been though that road before. I lost a kid last year, because I said I would no longer be accepting subsidy. (Normally, that kid was only here 3 days/week. Gramps had to bring him everyday with subsidy. In the end, it was costing gramps more because he was bring him everyday. After awhile, he was bringing the kid down to his normal 3 days/week and wanted me to mark down he was here everyday.)
At first I was sympathic toward mom when she told me several months ago that her and her husband had split up. But then I"m finding more things out(not by my doing) and I've since become less sympathic with her "problems"
I have dck that's been with me for over a year. During this time, her parents have split up. Rarely, will dcd pick up child(it has to go through mom first. She lets me know when he is coming) Dck and dcm are living with dcm's parents. I recentlly found out (by dcm) that she has a boyfriend. He also has at least 1 child. Anyway, dck and dcm go out to eat almost every night, they are always going/doing something every night. Mom says do you want to go here, do you want to go there. They were just at disneyworld for a week. they went with mom's bf.
Now I found out, mom is going for assistance! don't know what all she is going for. I do know however, that I will not get involved in subsidy. I've been though that road before. I lost a kid last year, because I said I would no longer be accepting subsidy. (Normally, that kid was only here 3 days/week. Gramps had to bring him everyday with subsidy. In the end, it was costing gramps more because he was bring him everyday. After awhile, he was bringing the kid down to his normal 3 days/week and wanted me to mark down he was here everyday.)
At first I was sympathic toward mom when she told me several months ago that her and her husband had split up. But then I"m finding more things out(not by my doing) and I've since become less sympathic with her "problems"
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