So Sad, And Scary....

[countrymom]

I too don't understand the feeding thing and why didn't she take the baby out to feed him and bring him downstairs with the other kids. I wonder if what they used to prop the bottle up made the baby choke, but then why wasn't the baby with her even if he was in the car seat.

[Cat Herder]

After reading the affidavit I'm wondering if the provider didn't take the baby upstairs and prop a bottle while he was in the car seat....... send the kid up to check on him..... the kid either didn't do it or did it too late....... and found the kid buried in whatever she used to prop the bottle.

I'm wondering if the baby suffocated in whatever was used to prop the bottle. I'm wondering if the teenager was supposed to check on him and didn't or found him buried in the cloth.

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I feel the same . The investigator made a point of mentioning Avin had a very full diaper. The provider said it happened after CPR was stared. That was when they began questioning her again and she changed details. It gave me chills.

During my own sons autopsy and investigation it was a very important point to investigators that he had a full bladder. That was one fact I was told that rules out suffocation on his report.

CPR had been performed on my son as well as intubation. The lead investigator told me this himself while telling me the outcome of the investigation and to comfort me that my son did not struggle or suffer.

It is possible he was trying to come up with anything to put me at peace, but it has stuck with me. I cling to that fact so I pray it is true.

[Crystal]

I feel the same . The investigator made a point of mentioning Avin had a very full diaper. The provider said it happened after CPR was stared. That was when they began questioning her again and she changed details. It gave me chills.

During my own sons autopsy and investigation it was a very important point to investigators that he had a full bladder. That was one fact I was told that rules out suffocation on his report.

CPR had been performed on my son as well as intubation. The lead investigator told me this himself while telling me the outcome of the investigation and to comfort me that my son did not struggle or suffer.

It is possible he was trying to come up with anything to put me at peace, but it has stuck with me. I cling to that fact so I pray it is true.

[nannyde]

I feel the same . The investigator made a point of mentioning Avin had a very full diaper. The provider said it happened after CPR was stared. That was when they began questioning her again and she changed details. It gave me chills.

During my own sons autopsy and investigation it was a very important point to investigators that he had a full bladder. That was one fact I was told that rules out suffocation on his report.

CPR had been performed on my son as well as intubation. The lead investigator told me this himself while telling me the outcome of the investigation and to comfort me that my son did not struggle or suffer.

It is possible he was trying to come up with anything to put me at peace, but it has stuck with me. I cling to that fact so I pray it is true.

I missed the very wet diaper. where was that?

[Cat Herder]

I missed the very wet diaper. where was that?

Sorry for the delay, hun. We were outside carving pumpkins...

Pg. 7 lines 21-25 states she said the child was clean and dry, but assessment revealed clothing "wet and soiled".

Also line 43 discusses her changing stories after being confronted with new information.

Page 10 discusses the bloody post mortem purge around his head in the crib following death. IME, They would use the term "blood stain" instead of "wet and soiled" on the clothing.

It was very familiar wording to me.

[misspollywog]

This whole thing makes me sick to my stomach.

[Michelle]

This woman probably propped the baby with a bottle, stuck him upstairs so no one can hear him cry, planned on changing the diaper right before dad got there, and when she went to change the diaper .. that's when she found him dead, this is the worse kind of neglect... this was probably her usual practice.
Parents need to see past the expensive toys, and nice house and do surprise visits..I know these parents were awesome parents but a lot of people put too much faith in how a daycare looks, awards, college degrees and they don't do spot checks..
You can also tell if someone is propping if their car seat is always wet everyday.
I personally would never even leave my babies car seat at daycare to make sure the baby is placed in a crib.
This story makes me so sad.
Is there an article or video that shows pictures of the inside of her house?